My Boyfriend Annoys Me!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

he always feels like i need to be talkin to him all the time and i'll tel him i'll call him back and then he'll call me back..it really irritates me and i'll tell him i'm doing something and he'll still try to i.m me or call me, he always wants things for himself but he doesn't do anything helpful for the relationship, he cheated on me before and i forgave him but he still feels the need to talk to other females, am i wrong for not wanting him to talk to other girls???even when he says their just his friends??? what can i do???

Answer 1

tell him to shape up or ship out. it will scare him, and he will do what you want.
if you dont want to do that, you could always be clingy, just like he does. if you know he is eating dinner or going out w/ friends, call and ask him something stupid. ask him who he is with, what he is doing afterward. he will realize how annoying it is and ask you to stop. then you can be like, but i thought thats what you wanted b/c you do the same stuff to me... i dont understand im so confused. he will change- it will just take a while.

Answer 2

It's not wrong of you to not WANT him to talk to other girls, but it IS wrong if you try to forbid him from doing it. He obviously likes you a lot if he wants to talk to you so badly all the time. It's his way of letting you know that he cares. You need to talk to him about that one. As for talking with girls, trust is an important part of a relationship. Just because he cheated on you once doesn't mean he'll do it again. But of course that isn't all on you. If he's flirting with other girls, then he needs to stop that. If these girls really are just his friends, then he should be "allowed" to talk to them.

Answer 3

obviously you can forgive but you cant forget. but if you took him back and decided to forgive him, then you have to put that whole situation behind you. i dont think there is anything wrong with guys having girls that are just freinds. but you have to be able to trust them. i have many guy friends and my husband has many female friends. but thats where the trust comes in. As far as him always calling you, well maybe hes just trying to keep tabs on you or even just cant stand not being around you. ALL men annoy thier partners, no matter what, in some way but thats jsut how it is! lol you have to figure out if you really do trust him or if you are just convincing yourself that you do.

Answer 4

I can tell you, you certainly sound unhappy. The fact he cheated on you was wrong but really it's not your place to tell him he cannot talk to other females, I can understand though. You need to talk to him calmly, letting him know that his smothering attention is getting to you a bit and if he can limit the amount of times he calls to once or twice per day.

Answer 5

OMG sweetie i am deerly sorry.Man guys these days date evberyone.You seem like a very nice girl who really cares about this relationship and does not want anythinbg to ruin it. You love him but you have things to do sometimes and can't talk to him. He needs to understand that you have a life to care about.Its not going to be just hanging out w/ him and loving....He needs to give you space!

The best advice is for you to tell him clear and loud..please im not trying to be mean but i really have to do things in my life and ifeel i cant because its kinda bothering..Ill call you when im finished doing my work....Tell him how you TRULY FEEL!!!!!!!!!!

If he keeps on doing that just let him go b/c you cant live under that pressure so much. And you gave him a 2nd chance that was very fond of you but i have a question for you WAS IT WORTH IT?

Well wish you the best hun and have a great day?
Remember to think about it...Was it worth it giving him a chance to be w/ me when he CHEATED ON ME??????


Good Luck!
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Answer 6

It sounds like he is just insecure. Or he's scared you will cheat, like he did, so he has to talk to you all of the time. You are not wrong for not wanting him to talk to other girls. Of course it will bother you, he cheated on you! It should get better with time though, and you might ease up a little and not feel so annoyed when he talks to them.

Answer 7

You know the answer to this question.

You two aren't right for eachother. Don't let the lonliness you think you'll have push you into a mistake.

I don't think it's him, or you, it's that you don't belong together and you know it. Don't worry about who is to blame. People think that once you date for a while that breaking up has to be someone's fault.

There's someone that will feel natural out there, but this isn't the guy.

Answer 8

You have to respect yourself before demanding respect from him. It sounds as if he will do these things because he feels he can get away with them. A relationship is not a one-way street and if you are continually being disrespected then you need to decide if that is acceptable or that you have the will to move on.

Answer 9

no its not wrong, but don't drive it through the ground.if there is no truust in th relationship than there is nothing.if he irritates u so much than u should tell him and let him know how u feel.maybe he is trying to talk to u so much either because he has done something that can hurt u mentally and physically,and he don't want to tell u;or he is trying to keep himself from cheating on u again

Answer 10

okay first this guy is wayyy too clingy and thats why my friend broke up with her bf cus he was too clingy. and its wrong that he flirts with other girls but if he just has friends then i dont htink thatts wrong but flirting thats rlly wrong. and since he cheated on u before he will do it again not saying a positive he will but there is a chance..and i wouldnt take it if i were u ...i would tlk to him and ask for u guys to take a break to figure things out and he needs to firgure out who he rlly wants u or the other girls that he "talks" to. good luck. stay strong. =)