Mom decides to become mormon....for all of the wrong reasons?

Question

My mom likes a man who is mormon.. now she wants to become one. The only problem here is that she has been christian her whole life. She doesnt even know if this man likes her.. she just likes him.... I am not supportive in this at all. I feel its very immature of her do this. What shall i say to her when she wants to "preach" to me?

Answer 1

That when she gets marriade in the temple, she must OBEY whatever he tells her to do, that she must look at www.exmormon.org to see what they really do in the temple, that they believe in a God named Elohim that lives on a planet near a star called Kolob with all his poligamist Goddesses wives who are eternally pregnat. They do not believe in being saved, they believe that satan is a brother to jesus, that they are prejudice, and believe that Cain's Mark was black skin, That they believe they can evolve into God's and Goddesses and this is the worst form of idolitry, you are TOLD were to serve in their church, women cannot pray over people or heal or prophecy over people, ONLY THE MEN do that. ect.

Answer 2

Religion is a personal thing and each person must find faith on their own. If she converts to Mormonism because of a man and not because of her own convictions, then she will have a tough time and probably won't last. However, if she believes on her own that this is the right decision, then you should respect that. She should also respect your decision. I don't know how old you are, but I hope that you have a good relationship with your mother. You should sit down and discuss any concerns with her and let her know how you feel.

There are certainly some misconceptions about the Mormon faith. Many do not think they are Christians, and are a cult, but they do believe they are Christians and their beliefs would attest to that. My wife is one of those that thinks the Mormons are a cult (and I'm Mormon), but she also understands religion is a personal thing. We respect each other despite our differences. I think you need to respect your mother's decision (although you can explain your doubt). Mormons are taught to respect all people regardless of their faith and I think that's a good theory. Good luck!

Answer 3

how do you know its the wrong reasons? Maybe there is something more than you dont know. I dont know many people who will just change their core beliefs because they like someone. it never works out.

Ever think of just asking her why she is so into it and being honest about your concerns?

Edit: Just wanted to post an adendum after reading some of the answers following me:

1)As a mormon Ive dated countless non-members and never had any sort of social stigmatism applied. In fact, a friend of mine married a non-mormon this afternoon and he is involved in local leadership. So much for that theory.

2)The idea that women in the Church can't pray for anyone, can't prophecy, or are forced to obey is completely ludicrious. Me thinks some poster needs some more accurate sources cause I can promise you that the Church doesn't act that way.

Answer 4

I would say the same thing I say when a Christian starts to preach to me. Is a Christian crazier than a Mormon? Both are very close to insanity on several levels.

Answer 5

My direction teaches to verify the guy's motivation. i think that the fact you come across the symbols significant is a non secular perception is a favorable. it is plenty greater significant than another motives i've got heard for a individual to take a direction. So (from a Wiccan) i think it became into not incorrect. .

Answer 6

Although mormonism itself is founded on an outright hoax, it's embraced by millions of people who make major decisions, not by logic or research, but by 'what feels right', also known as a "hunch". It's also an extremely authoritarian organization, and you must literally purchase your way to heaven. Women are considered 'baby factories' as their prime and only goal in this life or the next, and hold no authority in the church hierarchy.

Joining the mormons for any reason is the wrong one.

Answer 7

Does she firmly believe the Book of Mormon to be the word of God, like the Bible? Does she accept that Joseph Smith was a prophet of GOD?

She shouldn't join our church if she ccan't accept this.

Answer 8

Um, here is some new information for you : Mormons are Christians. They believe in Jesus too. If your mom wants to become Mormon, that's her choice, even if you don't agree. She's a big girl. If you don't want her preaching to you, tell her that you don't want her to preach to you, that you are content with your own spiritual beliefs. If being Mormon is important to her, let her do it.

Answer 9

It's natural for you to feel that way. What do your sibblings say? If you were in my office consulting about this I wouldn't touch much at all the issue of the faith. I would focus on the relationship your mother is having and the effect that has on you. Work it out that way, that is, when you talk to your mom, talk about the relationship not about the churches. If you are in highschool or in college, talk to your councilor and ask for her advice. If you are out of school, go with your mom to one.

Be cool ...

Answer 10

I think it's a great idea. She'll learn lots of new recipes. Like Carrot Jello and Funeral Potatoes.

The thing is, in the Mormon church, it is strongly discouraged to date someone that is not a Mormon. So your mom will automatically be rejected from the social clicks that exist within. That is unless she converts

Answer 11

Nothing. Get out your big guns, prayer! I also pray for your mother that God will put a stop to this relationship, since she will be led astray by this man. Whatever you do, do not argue, preach, whine, nag, get angry, none of it. There is something a hundred times more powerful than any of that: prayer in the name of Jesus Christ that God will give your mother discernment about what is truth....and what is not.