ive been having sex couple of years with different girls. None had ever gotten pregnant. But im getting more and more paranoid about getting one pregnant. So i usually just tease them. I double check my penis to make sure i dont precum and put a condom on, and i tease by insterting in and out and i make sure no liquids come out. can she get pregnant like that??? or ill have sex but i wont ejaculate in her, ill take it out before that, but when having sex i make sure i dont pre-*** by keeping it in. Its not fun since i cant enjoy it. Whats the possibilty of her getting pregnant this way? i really want to enjoy have sex. but i cant with all the pregnancy crap. whats should i do? Is anal sex safer????
2007-06-22 13:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good rule of thumb has always been if you are not ready to have a child, you are too young to be having sex.
2007-06-22 13:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have a vasectomy, then enjoy yourself all you want. Although I'd also be worried about contracting an STD (you said you have multiple partners.) Otherwise, use a condom - trying to check for pre-****is not enough.. As for anal, I'd think carefully about putting it where there is so much bacteria. You'd be surprised at the number of problems you can get if you go there - STDs aren't the half of it! However, the choice is yours - and hers. Don't forget that you can ejaculate inside her while wearing a condom - that's what they're designed for.
2007-06-22 13:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always wear a condom before entering the chick. That will help prevent better. You can still get the girl pregnant even if you didn't ejaculate in her. Also, if you want to be 100% sure, see if the chick is taking birth control. Condoms also worn the whole time can prevent diseases. Putting it on in the middle of the deed doesn't work.
2007-06-22 13:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk condoms are absolutely not fool proof of course you can get someone pregnant, dont use it if you cant suck up the responsibility. There is NO I repeat NO 100% safe way to have sex without the possability of a pregnancy if you are both in working order. and quite frankly that is the least of your problems have you not heard of stds or are you one of the extremely clever people that this will never ever happen to hmmm you just have to wonder why it is that those without a brain also can have a penis the wonders of the world lol
2007-06-22 13:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chances of impregnating a girl are very small using a condom. Even less if she is on the pill. As to anal sex, some girls enjoy that, some do not. For sex to be good for both, both people have to be comfortable with the positions that are used.
2007-06-22 13:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime you have sex without a condom, you risk pregnancy...you have no way of knowing a single sperm didn't come out while you were "teasing"...do you know how many sperm are just in a tiny drop of pre-***?
Either stop having sexuntil you are with someone and ata time inyour life where you are ok with a child coming into play...or wear a condom from the second you start until it is over...
2007-06-22 13:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, never have sex without a condom. Even taking it out before you orgasm wont' ensure sperm won't be released. Precum juices often contain sperm.
Second, stop fretting. Just make sure the condom isn't ripped and you'll be fine.
Third, anal sex isn't safter. You won't get her pregnant, but you'll get all the bacteria from her large intestine onto your penis. Very bad idea. It sounds good until you see your penis turning yellow w/ black dots all over it.
2007-06-22 13:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres like a .5% chance of pregancy when using a condom and make sure the girl is on birth control
2007-06-22 13:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure anal sex is safer if u know ur partner is STD free......but no condom or any form of birth control is 100% for preventing pregnancy just use a condom make sure she's on the pill and just enjoy and make sure it doesnt break.....just relax
2007-06-22 13:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the answers were interesting but they all missed one point. Precum is a lubricant and it contains sperm!
Ask her if she's on the pill and use a condom. Remember. Children are natures way of saying that you should have settled for a blow job!
2007-06-22 13:39:52 · answer #10 · answered by Henry H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about STDs??? Please don't live thinking "it won't happen to me." Use a condom until you are in a long-term relationship and have both been tested.
Regarding pregnancy, your "method" is a very risky one. You may have been lucky up to now, but you should not press that luck. Pre-ejaculation can occur when you least expect it.
2007-06-22 13:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by Margaux80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋