Question to 25 year old Indian girls?

Question

Am 35 yr old, virgin Indian.
I got married when I was 24. Before the first night had an accident and injured my spine and could not move most parts of my body. The girl dumped me and got a divorce. My parents took care of me and I recovered completely 4 years ago. Since then I focussed on getting back my life. I got a job as a software programmer. Now my career is improving. Actually am doing rather well.

All my colleagues even my bosses are younger than me. In fact my friends are all ten years younger than me. No one knows my age. Now in the last six months I have got closer to a very pretty girl. I am fond of her. I avoid discussing my age. I think she would be 25. We are the best friends and spend a lot of time together. I never made any attempt at physical intimacy. A child hood friend told me that I should tell her about my age and my past marriage. I think I would lose her. So have been avoiding her for last two weeks.

Is a 35, divorced man too wrong for 25 yr old girls.

Answer 1

If she has true feelings for you, disclosing your past will not make her lose interest in you. The 10 year age difference may play to your best advantage. Many women go for older men for obvious reasons. Your friend is right. let her know your past.

Answer 2

I'm 26 and half Indian with this to say, stop worrying about your past and your age. If this girl truly cares for you, she won't care how old you are and with a story like that I'm sure she'll will not treat you any differently but would rather be understanding towards the situation. Don't be afraid to step back out there and tell her what you feel for her. Everything in life happens for a reason, your first wife was not the woman you were meant to be with so now it's time to find out who is. Go for it!!

Answer 3

i think it is less about age, and more about stage in life

although some ages are ridiculous (20 and 55 say) a 10 year age difference probably isn't the worst thing ever....IF YOU ARE HONEST

you really need to tell her the truth! it shouldn't be a problem, especially since with the recovery you had to go through (7 years if i did the math right) you are sort of like a 28 year old with the experiences you didn't get in those years

at the same time you are probably older than your years because of that experience

it also depends on her maturity

but really, honesty is the main thing here, holding the truth longer would just lead to more damage later on!

Answer 4

No dear there is nothing wrong but your friend is right you shud tell her about your past n age, you did nothing wrong ,so dont be afraid just tell her if she really likes you definitely she'll accept all the conditions are attached with you.
pls talk to her without any fear. you have faced a lot of bad experiences in your life and overcame through all, so always look for the best.Whatever will be happen you have to accept that , no other choice but you can do only one thing ACCEPT N FACE ALL THE SITUATIONS AS IT COMES TO YOU.best of luck (my senses says that DEFINITELY SHE'LL ACCEPT YOU)

Answer 5

Very well, am not 25 yrs old but according to me it depends on the gals character and her parents

Answer 6

The difference is reasonable. if she loves you she will understand. do not avoid her. Remove the fear that you will loose her if you tell your past. if she is sensible girl she will not. before that please assess yourself as to are a healthy man for a girl of 25.

Answer 7

No You should tell her your past & propose her diffenately she will agree ,GOOD LUCK,Coz some one feels that your are the best that time they will like to live with you.

Answer 8

Not necessarily... If you are honest with her, she will understand. If not, just know that you tried.

Answer 9

No, if you don't lie to her and then if she accepts it.Tell her about your past!!!You'll be fine.You won't loose her~~~::::"""

Answer 10

If she loves you she will understand you.