their ex- of more than 2 years
2007-06-22 12:10:53 · 31 answers · asked by angelique g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bestfriends ex-boyfreind
2007-06-22 12:49:44 · update #1
my bestfriends ex- boyfriend
2007-06-22 12:50:32 · update #2
I would like to believe that you are asking this question because you now know you did something wrong and want to correct it .The fact that he was your best friend's ex for three years does not change the fact that you betrayed her.If you do not have feelings for this person and you still value your friendship with your best friend, then I suggest you tell her everything. Apologize for your conduct, ask for her forgiveness, and promise such an act would not be repeated in the future.She may be hurt and also mad at you, but eventually,your honesty will win her over.However if you elect to keep quiet, someone else ( for example-the ex) might inform her and that would complicate matters for you. Good luck.
2007-06-22 12:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things are better kept to yourself, rather than hurting the other person in a situation like this. Yet, it's pretty sad that you would actually do something like that, makes ya wonder sometimes, why people do things of that sort when there are SO many available prospects out there other than your friends bf,ex bf, and so on . Jeepers......have some dignity from now on......
2007-06-22 12:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by wyofficer31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on him, and additionally you probable gave him an STD. properly the percentages are against you. permit's study what you/we do be responsive to (i individually am attempting that should assist you). a million). You cheated. 2). You had (in spite of if it grow to be for a 2d through a breaking) had unprotected intercourse. 3). you presently have a sexually transmittable ailment. unhappy to declare, you do no longer and not in any respect did rather be responsive to if he grow to be cheating on you, (harmless until shown responsible; even although you got here upon fishy stuff; have faith me that frequently only happens and to teach you; YOU have been the single having speculations, and yet YOU have been the guy who ended up cheating?) yet you used it as a reason and justified it with the intention to convey your self into having a one evening stand. permit's settle for it, that's what it grow to be. You met, exchanged numbers and then had intercourse. rather, in case you rather do have any remorseful approximately, or guilt or only have some dignity, you have the braveness to be easy and dad out with it. You had the braveness to take those strikes of incorrect doing, now have the braveness to be easy with your self and your boyfriend. Be easy considering which you desire to and would, no longer considering which you will need him to do an analogous. Be a greater useful peson now. good success and appropriate needs.
2016-10-02 23:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by minick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...it's up to you honestly. If the friendship really means that much to you, you might want to come clean. But honestly it couldn't have meant too much for you to sleep with her ex without seeing how she felt about you even talking to him. That's shady...and if I was your best friend we'd probably fight. This is a rule in the friendship manual you should have read when you got your FIRST friend. Never even persue talking to, dating, especially sleeping with, a friend's ex before asking her permission. It's simply a no-no! Even if your friend liked this guy but they never became anything you still ask! He's hers until she gives him over to you...that's wrong! But good luck, I hope you make the right choice.
2007-06-22 12:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm bf as in boyfriend or bestfriend? ex..??
and.. if they say something about it come clean.. and if not. don't bring it up.. till you feel it's the right time. after all they haven't been together for 2 whole years.
2007-06-22 12:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by ;asjhdf. =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aint her best friend if you slept with their ex...
That's like, the unwritten law of friendship.
But if you two are really close and you value your friendship, tell her...
And dont just sleep around with this guy hun, respect yourself and either go out with him, or leave!
<3 La Reina
2007-06-22 12:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were together when you slept with his ex, then you obviously don't care about your relationship. Confess so he can break it off.
2007-06-22 12:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently this is bothering you. I would tell my bf simply because i wouldnt want him/her to find out another way. Yes this may cause trouble between the two of you but honesty is the key virtue.
2007-06-22 12:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by feb29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sleeping with them in the first place? I think you should confess , It's bad to sin.
2007-06-22 12:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confess and never keep it quiet , no matter the concequences are
u never know what'll happen in the future
free ur mind
2007-06-22 12:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋