This guy who I'm friends with thinks I'm boring sometimes. He even says it to me. So when we're playing tennis, he plays with another person there because last time he thought I was boring. Today, he asked me if I wanted to come to the tennis court(this was on AIM). I said "sure" and then he seemed to be all nervous and said" U will be bored again!!:(" because he didn't think I'd play, just watch. He also said(all quoted), " you can explore land with bike, instead of coming". I'm going on vacation to China and he's like, "It will give u will a fresh experience, rather then be home".
My thought is, oh yeah, he thinks im annoying, why not get rid of her?? what do you think??
2007-06-22 11:13:45 · 14 answers · asked by Nina is here! :D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, sorry if i confused you. I had to go really fast so I just typed the last sentences and went.
What I meant was...he seemed eager to NOT have me come and watch and just offered to just be nice. And then he threw in the "you'll have a fresh experience in China, etc.." I told him before that I didn't want to go. So when he said that, it seems like he's trying to convince me to go and is trying to get rid of me.
Yeah, so I got a little peeved off and snapped at him online. He didn't even seemed confused or whatever, just flowed along with it. So that makes me think, this guy must of known I'd get pissed off.
Sorry if this is confusing..
2007-06-23 03:41:51 · update #1
Sounds to me like he thinks his life is better than yours. Pfft! Why do you care what he thinks? Some people enjoy quiet peaceful days others aren't happy unless they're on the edge of excitement. He sounds like he's judging your lifestyle based on what makes HIM happy. What makes you happy?
2007-06-22 11:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Geronimo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes being offensive. you should never call someone boring so many times. maybe if he honestly felt that way he can tell you one time in all seriousness, but many times is just self esteem-lowering. i would find a new person to play tennis with and make him jealous! that would be a great plan. or not even to make him jealous, just so you can have a fun time playing tennis and not having to worry about not impressing the other person with your "boringness"..he will then see he misses playing wtih you and apologize. good luck!
2007-06-22 18:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are boring? around him...? he make you boring?... this is a littler confuse... anyway.. this is you only friend? he feel obligate to share with you his friendship.. how many person share you friendship... with you? ( how many are in the group) anyone else tell you that you seen boring? I don't said take this guy out of you life if is only a friend.. but I suggest that keep the distance to this guy... when he invite you to do something with him.. sometime tell him no... maybe in that way he no feel obligate to invite you to everywhere that other friend go... also try you to invite friend that share you friendship with him.. out.. a mean.. without him... let see they reaction... if they no feel that your bored around they.. he is the problem... maybe he like you and find the defend mode... save... if you no are interest more than a friend with this guy... follow my suggestion.. but if you are interest more that a friend... find the way to figured why he so nervous around you....? because something is no right here....
good luck
ps. please let us know what happen...
2007-06-22 18:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by jorge c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's right about China.......it will give you a fresh experience.....and it should be your thought (not his).....oh yeah, he is annoying, why not get rid of him?? If he was really interested in you........he would'nt think you were boring at all. No need to be angry.......just forget this loser and find someone that wants to be with YOU......no matter what you are doing........the right guy would'nt be thinking you are boring......he would be thinking "I want to be with her, she is interesting and fun to be with!" He is annoying......get rid of him and be thankful you are!
2007-06-22 18:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by riverratt84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that you should stop hanging around with him as he is obviously an idiot who can't make up his mind whether he wants anything to do with you or not. He is not worth the effort.
2007-06-23 06:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you and doesn't know the right way to show it. Call him and ask him for a game of tennis. Sounds to me you like him back!
2007-06-22 18:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just your friend, not your boyfriend... it's not like you're commited to him. If you want to be angry, then be angry and hang out with your other friends.. If you don't want to be angry, then don't be, and hang out with him. Personally, I wouldn't want to hang out with some one who thinks I'm boring. Unless they were ok with me being boring and still invited me places because they want me there, not just because they're trying to look like they want me there, when secretly they're actually hoping I say "No, I don't want to go." I wouldn't want to be friends with people who only invite me places to be "polite". I don't need fake friends.
2007-06-22 18:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you feel this way, you should spend less time with him and more time with people who make you feel good about yourself.
2007-06-22 18:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by Top Secret :) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am thinking you are actually sucking knowledge out of my skull as I look at your writing.
2007-06-22 18:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mmm, seems like he wants to get away from you in a nice way...or could it be that, I don't get your question lol
2007-06-22 18:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋