ok, well 2day my bf asked me what i'd say if he asked me too marry him. (i kow we're too young and we've only been dating for 7 months, but still) i said i would. but he said he'd have to "be w/ me more to make that decicion." y would he ask me if he didnt want to in the first place?!!
2007-06-22 10:55:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were taling on IM, and he's not the kinda guy who'd wanna get in my pants. he's just weird like that.
2007-06-22 11:02:50 · update #1
Perhaps he was just trying to get laid. Guys will say a lot of things to make that happen
2007-06-22 10:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by John S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was testing to see how strongly you feel about him. Yes 7 months can tell a lot about a person, but often more time is needed to really know each other. If after all the seasons you still are crazy about each other you perhaps have had enough time to make a good decision about the rest of your life.
2007-06-22 18:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are any number of reasons why he asked you. The most logical is that he was just making conversation.Or he might also be trying to find out if and how much you love him.Al though I believe you might have taken him just a bit more seriously than he intended you to (maybe you are more in love with him than he realizes),I will suggest that you don't let it destroy what appears to be a budding romance. Learn to laugh a little even at your self.
2007-06-22 18:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to see how deep you are into him. Man sometimes play sick mind games to find out how much a girl is in love with them. They beat around the bushes instead of point blank asking!
2007-06-22 17:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Princesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, sorry to tell you, but he's just trying to get in your pants; you know - have sex with you. Don't fall for it. If you are way too young for marriage, don't have sex until YOU are ready. It's not a test. If he says he will not like you anymore, then to hell with him.
2007-06-22 17:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wanted to let you know by asking you how you felt before telling you how he felt. or someone he knows was talking about getting married or something. guys ask weird questions like that or they will talk about things even if they aren't ready or don't know how they feel about it yet.
2007-06-22 18:00:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had some doubts about your relationship and he needed something to prove that you have real feelings for him. If he had asked you this, he probably wanted you to know that his intentions are serious :}
2007-06-22 18:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by alLe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why - maybe because he's immature and you're too young and you've only been dating for 7 months?
2007-06-22 17:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb the thought just came up to him and he was curious to wht u thought?? i don't think its serious and if its bothering u still then ask him y'd he ask u in the 1st place =)
2007-06-22 17:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna marry you. I just asked you to see how desparate you are.
2007-06-22 17:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋