My boyfriend wants me to get a tattoo...?

Question

He has lots of them all over his body.
http://www.indianasmostwanted.com/warrant/02.203144

I don't wish to mark up my body like that. What should I do?

I'm afraid that if I don't do what he wants that he will leave me.

He financially supports me and my baby, even though it isn't his. It is his dead brother's baby.

Answer 1

A little butterfly or something small would be cute.

Answer 2

Hunny,

First off,
You just should use your boyfriends picture on a most wanted list, do you really think your baby needs to grow up around someone that is a criminal?

Trust me you dont, I did and it is not want any kid needs to be around.

Second,
It is your body. YOURS! If he leaves you over a tattoo then DO you think he really loves you? I think not. Tattoos are FOREVER. If your boyfriend leaves you or if you leave him or if he ends up in prison or whatever you will be stuck with a tattoo that you didnt want all because some guy made you get one.

JUst tell him you are not ready to get a tattoo and you like your body just the way it is. If he cant except that, then why the hell do you wanna be with him?

Also, if a tattoo artisit has a feeling you are being forced to get a tattoo they most than likely wont do it.

Answer 3

If your boyfriend chooses to leave you because you don't want to have a tattoo, then he does not truly love you. Tattoos are forever and not something you should get because someone told you too. If it would make you feel badly about yourself for any reason, do not get a tattoo. Explain your wishes to your boyfriend & if he cannot except the decision you made then leave. Family members help you support your child. You are not the property of your boyfriend. Your body....... your choice.

Answer 4

I don't think you're serious, but just incase...

You should say absolutely not. It is your body to do with if you please. If he tries to force you physically, call the police.

You should not live in fear this way. You should tell him he is hurting you by trying to make you do to your body something you don't want. And if he cannot understand that, start looking for some way to move out.

Answer 5

Stay true to yourself. If you are not ready to get a tatoo nor will you ever be explain to him your reasons for not wanting to. If he cares for you enough he should understand.. You should never give in nor be pressured by a bf or significant other to do things that you don 't want to YOUR body. All in all don't give in because if things don't work with you and him then you are stuck with a constant reminder of your relationship with him forever or a costly surgical procedure to remove it..

Answer 6

ok if YOU dont want one. DONT get one. It will be there FOREVER, and laser treatment is VERY expensive. and if you guys break up you will have a constant reminder of him and how he "made" you get a tattoo when you could have just said no.

Honey, its your body, your choice, if you dont want one..just say NO.



woah i just clicked on the link...THATS your boyfriend? oh COME ON! you can do better than that! HES WANTED FOR DEALING COCAINE!!! he is GOING to be found..and PUT in jail...and then where does that leave you?? for christs sake...dump him and get someone whos worth it..

Answer 7

Walk away from the control freak who wants to make you what you arent. Get a job and support your own child and yourself. You will feel better in the end

Answer 8

Don't get a tattoo.
Especially if you don't want to.
They are very lady like and look awful as you begin to age.
If he doesn't accept the way you want your body, then that's his problem. Getting a tattoo is many peoples biggest mistake, and if you're getting one when you don't even want one . . . then that isn't good.

Good Luck! =]

Answer 9

dont do anything that ur against about even for ur B/f. God knows what he's gonna ask u 2 do 2moro. if u wanna give it a try, no problem but if u dnt like it then dont do it. u'll only regret especially after u split up..

Answer 10

Oh dear Lord, you provided us a link showing him on a most wanted list. Here's the thing..... he deals drugs. You dont need him or his money. Do what you need to do, if you dont want a tattoo dont get one! Its your body not his!!

Answer 11

if hed leave u 4 not wanting a tattoo then u need 2 send him packing now bc he dont care at all 4 u! if u dont want it dont get one! u dont need him 2 take care of ur child, u can do it alone! its been done b4!