ok so im really really embarrassed...i was recently fingered and bled i think because he did it so deep it broke my hymen!there was blood all over my pants and i just told the guy it was my period..he really hurt me but anyways he didnt make me feel bad or uncomfortalble about it after and said it was nothing to be shamed about!i thought this was it all over with and he wouldnt tell anyone but he did tell his friends and they told even more people and now it got back to me again and im sooo embarrassed!why did he do such a cruel thing?!?
2007-06-22 08:31:03 · 44 answers · asked by lil Miss Irish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW! What a creep! I wouldn't be embarrassed because we have all done it one time or another so your not the first person to bleed. I would go around telling people he didn't know what he was doing and that is why your bleeding because he apparently didn't if he hurt you.
2007-06-22 08:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys tell you that they wont tell anyone anything and then they do. Guys tell stories about what they do with girls to their friends because it is how they are. Girls do it to without even thinking about it, but not if it embarrassing to us. I am so sorry that he told people!!! Hold your head up high because things like this happen every day and it will not be the end of the world. People can be crawl and all we can do is act like it doesn't hurt us in anyway. If they think that it is getting to you then they will not stop. If others is laughing about than do the same to let them know that it doesn't bother you. Just keep your head held high. I promise that it will blow over soon because they will not continue for long because they will find something else to gosh-up about.
2007-06-22 08:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk, sorry.
Shoulda made a better choice on who to do that kinda stuff with! Wait for someone you acctually know and care about before you do that kinda thing. How old are you 12, 13, 14. Anyway if you're worried about being embaresed about this your too young to have done it in the first place.
Ya know everyone is saying that he is immature but you're pretty immature too, since you're soooo embaraced over a natural thing, and your soooo embaraced that your friends know. Guess what! Unless you're a lepper every girl has had this happen to them sooner or later, you just did it sooner with a ********.
So I think both of you need to grow up alittle before you continue doing this stuff!
2007-06-22 08:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by jmdavis333 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 07:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where you need to leave him alone, yes he broke it and you bleed, wow not the biggest problem you could have, silence is a virtue, evenually this will go away he is just immature and dont know any better thats all he has an ego kick and wanted to get laid thats all, but dont do it agian with him or you'll be the stupid one, what he was trying to do is break it so the next time it wouldnt hurt so bad when he tries to have sex with you, all guys do this before sex, they finger you and than want to have sex. DONT BE STUPID DONT TALK TO HIM AGIAN.
2007-06-22 08:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are idiots! There really isn't any other explanation for it. They are just idiots. You may feel embarrassed for awhile, but it will pass. Try not to let it bother you so much. Sorry I couldn't be more help. Guys are just idiots!!! You may want to spread a rumor about his tiny 'youknowwhat' to get him back!
2007-06-22 08:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lil miss Irish, i guess the reason why he told his friends was because he probably thought it was really disgusting and didn't like the fact that you didn't told him that you were on your period. most guys say that they won't tell anyone including their friends but mostly they just said that just so you won't feel bad but that's how most guy's are dude. The same thing happen to me too with my girlfriend but she wasn't on her period, i accidentally cut her inside her you know what because i have long nails, she thought I would tell my friends but I didn't because I truly love her and some what found it sexy because it was blood...blood that was really inside of her!
2007-06-22 08:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by sigifredo m 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boys are dumb. I had a guy say some nasty stuff about me when I was in school too. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but the embarassment will fade eventually.
2007-06-22 08:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a sick lil boy. That is why until you are out of high school you do not let ANY BOY in your pants with their penis OR THEIR HANDS!
I am so sorry sweety. Maybe you can just claim it a rumour. I have heard worse that just wasnt true.
2007-06-22 08:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mandi R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's bragging. it may take a while to get past this, but, when it's mentioned again??? Shake your head and walk away chicky, just walk away and say something along the lines of, man, you guys will believe anything wont you?....... the more a person knows that something got to you the more they'll use it against you.
2007-06-22 08:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by sred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋