any one here know how to interprete dreams I guess I posted in wrong spot at first please help!!!?

Question

Last night I had a dream that,, I was with my ex- husband,, we were happy I remembered every detail about him saw his face,, smile nose,, the way he looked at me told me that he loved me so much, I turned over and notice I was in bed with my now new current husband,, I went back to sleep ,, the second dream came and again its my ex- husband but I am looking at him he is lying in a coffin dead,, I'm crying,, I'm touching his hand,, I even kissed his cold lips,,, (which by the way I would never do in my awake life,, I don't do dead people I don't even go to funerals)!! , anybody now whats going on,, I also remember something like I need to see you,, I love you or something like that,, but I don't know who was saying it,, Me or my Ex,, Hell it could have been my new husband for all I know,, Please help,, only real answers please... no jokes.

also when I woke up and noticed that I was in bed with my current husband,, I had a funny feeling inside I don't know what it was like something was wrong,, I couldn't honestly say I felt happy in fact I think he touched me and I moved away,, But I really love Him,, Is there something wrong with me,, I just read this again and felt like crying,, cause it just seemed so real,, Please help me,, I really feel confused or something,, Hell I don't know what I feel..

Answer 1

It seems that the dream started out pleasantly regarding the ex, being happy, etc., because maybe in general, you had a good relationship with him.

Then reality (and the beginning of wakefulness) set in, and you realize you're with your current husband, so your mind "let's go" of the ex-husband because in your heart that's really what you've done.

Him being in a coffin merely means that your relationship with him has died, not him. But you still have good feelings towards him, which is why you kissed him.

Be happy that you "let go with love". Many people aren't mature enough to do that.

Answer 2

The dream about your ex could stem from different things. If you have children, do you ever stay in touch, etc. When you awoke and seeing your present husband and the way you felt and pulledf away.-- There is really nothing wrong with you. You had just had a really emotional dream and it brought up a lot of your old feelings. These were still fresh in your mind and even though you love your husband, I guess it felt like he was intrudeing for a minute. If you have a child by your ex, you could contact him and just ask about his health. DON'T tell him aboutyour dream though. Either of them.If he asks, just tell him you dreamed that he wasn't feeling well and it was so real you decided to ask. Unless you are physic though, I wouldn't worry.

Answer 3

Hey...I'm not a professional but if I dream something and analyze it I usually find that I need something...or someone.
Last night I dreamt of being with my gardener!! I need to get a boyfriend or make a few calls! There are two things I can guess about your dreams but first can you remember if you've ever had relevant dreams before where you either found that you were lacking something or had a premonition of something? If yes, then read into that dream that your ex is either dreaming of you or needs you to contact him. The other thing is that you need HIM or need him for something. This leads me to the seconds guess: Either your new husband or marriage is lacking something for you to be dreaming of your ex in particular. Could it be the sex? The caring? What did you love about your ex that you wish your current husband had. Write it down. There's therapy between your head and your hand. Sounds weird but even if you don't know what to write, something does come out if you start writing. I suggest communication a whole lot more with your new hubby...have you been?................tink

Answer 4

Your having dreams about your ex-husband because subconsciously you are comparing him to your new husband. Since you shared a relationship with your first husband, there are alot of memories and emotions you have stored in your mind which you will not be able to get rid of. Those thoughts can be triggered by comparison to your new husband, which lead to you having dream about your old husband. The second dream you had about your husband in the coffin represents that you see your ex-husband feelings for you as dead, but there is a part of you that still connected to your ex-husband.

Answer 5

In some sense, it was a wish dream of what you wished you would have had with your ex or a rememberance of when the relationship was "right". In another sense, it was closing the chapter on that part of your life. Despite the sorrow involved with loss, we do move on and carry on, but we do hold onto the experience and some special feelings associated with people we loved in our past. Don't get stressed out over this dream. You are moving forward. Cherish the good from your past, but look forward to the future.

Answer 6

I agree with Saphira and Curious_Mum. I don't think you have to worry that this means you are longing to be with your ex or that you don't love your husband.

I would look at ways that you're current relationships (it doesn't even have to be with your husband, it could be any significant relationship in your life) mirrors your relationship with your ex. If he was manipulative, you may be dealing with someone manipulative currently. The dream is alerting you to a pattern of behavior or a pattern of relational choices.

It could also be that your ex symbolizes a part of your own personality. If he's very outgoing, the two dreams may mean that you're becoming less outgoing, and you miss that about yourself.

I think we are the people and symbols in our dreams. So if you can think what he symbolizes to you, your dream will make more sense to you. Please don't stress out about your love for your husband. Dreaming of someone else doesn't mean that you'd prefer to be with someone else or that you don't love him.

Answer 7

To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behaviour in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person. In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable. To see your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have crossed out or neglected.
To see someone dying in your dream, signifies that your feelings for that person are dead or that a significant change/loss is occurring in your relationship with that person. Alternatively, you may want to repress that aspect of yourself that is represented by the dying person.

Answer 8

To dream about the death of a loved one, suggests that you are lacking a certain aspect or quality that the loved one embodies. Ask yourself what makes this person special or what do you like about him. It is that very quality that you are lacking in your own relationship or circumstances. Alternatively, it indicates that whatever that person represents has no part in your own life? Remember that dreams of death, while they may be frightening at times, actually portend great things: mystery, the unknown, and transformation. While change is often scary, it is good too

Answer 9

HAHAHAAAAAA

Maybe you should divorce your NEW husband and go back to your EX husband! I think your subconscious is trying to tell you that...haahahaa....Good luck!