we have been goin strong for 4 months know and we are really in love..but know that its summer we both work and only get to see echother once a week and its dificult...should i try to stick it out or break it off so i dont feel hurt when i dont get to see him...even though i really love him...and also when we see echother we throw so much emotion into it that i think that one day we might go to far like sex and we aren't ready for that. How do i keep us happy but not sexually active?
2007-06-22 07:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Kristina♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a week is better than not at all. But you need to ask yourself, would you rather never see him again, or is once a week enough for now. The only way it will go further than you want is if you allow it. You can kiss, and touch without having sex. if you are really worried about going to far, set a rule that you both keep your clothes on. taking them off and fooling around sometimes makes it too difficult to stop or say no - you get caught up in the moment. at least if you stay dressed, you have to think about it for a minute or two.
2007-06-25 02:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to control yourselves when you are together. Never give up the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love. Don't break it off if you love him, you just have to be careful. My bf of 4 months I don't even get to see this summer. He left the country for special training, but I'm still here for him, and we both have discussed the sex thing and decided to wait. I think it helps if you are both on the same page
2007-06-22 14:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristina, You are young so break it off and enjoy life ! When true love comes there will be no asking anyone for advice. Stay pure until marriage, There is no greater gift a young bride and groom could give to one another !
2007-06-22 15:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 and i've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months. it was very hard because i couldn't drive and he didn't have his license although he was already 16. i just turned 16 last month and just got my license. it's hard only being able to see your boyfriend once a week, knowing that the two of you are in love and if at anytime possible you want to spend every moment together... but there are struggles and obstacles in every relationship that we all have to deal with, and yeah it's tough... but just hang in there and it'll all get better.
2007-06-22 15:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, stick with him no matter what
but let me ask you, if your ready for love, how are you not ready for sex?
not tryin to sound like a typical guy but sex is a big part of love, especially showing it.
If i were you id try to stick with the bf, if he wants to break it off because you wont have sex with him, well then u gotta look for a guy who is more on your level
good luck
2007-06-22 16:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by sexy stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Stay as you are now, you will be fine. It will hurt more if you break it off. 1 day a week is better than none.
2007-06-22 15:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by son_of_glen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RESPECT. Key word. You have to respect and trust each other. If you say you love him but want to leave him, then you don't love him the way that you think you do. Don't have sex wiht him until your'e married.
2007-06-22 14:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...tough one. go see a movie and just makeout
ya know you can makeout in bed with your cloths off...without having sex...and lick eachother...sorry that was really wierd!!!
ummm...ya just keep it normal!
2007-06-22 14:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is not busy, try calling him or text him.If he is busy and you cant call him just kiss him when he gets there. :))
2007-06-22 14:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ordinary Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋