Me and this guy have been reali close for about a year now. we trust each other completly, and things have been gettin reali flirty lately - we've talked about wat we want to do to each other (ye, use ur imagination! lol) - he started it, and we both admitted to wanted to physically be with each other, but not that we liked each other. he has a bit of a reputation for being a player, but i do genuinly think he meant it, even if that might make me seem niave. we've been gettin hassle from everyone else bout how close we are for months, we spend all our free time together and pretty much everyone thought us gettin together was inevitable - but then he got a new gf. i reali dont know wat to do - he's promised it wont change nythin between us, but i dont see how it cant - he's alreadi comin to me wit problems bout her and im findin it hard to be the frend he deserves without lettin ma feelings get in the way, please help me!
2007-06-22 07:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something similar occurred to me and though my situation didnt conclude how I wanted, you can still have time. I know its hard to help him with problems concerning his GF especially since you love him as well, so its like your stabbing yourself in the back. The best thing to do is to keep helping him with his problems because sooner or later he will realize how much you care for him. Wait for the right time and be prepared to tell him your feelings because if you tell him your feelings and dont help him, he will think negatively of you. Even if he is in a relationship at the time, after you tell him your feelings he will be thinking of you(Though thats really bad for his current GF). If they break up, make sure you are there for him and make sure you confort him. Also i hope the girl he is going out with is not your friend.
2007-06-22 07:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by DrCorrosion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay obviously this best friend of yours is toying with your feeling if he in one part looks like he's interested in you and then has a GIRLFRIEND. I think your best friend is just looking for fun with girls and you have been added to that player list of his. You on the other hand it seems like you want a serious relationship with him while him is more on the lets just pretend we want to do each other and so forth. To tell you the truth, friends dont say those types of things to each other unless they find each other attractive and they have been thinking of doing more. Apparently, your best friend has. As for him dating another girl while making you think you two have something going on is just wrong. I say keep him as a best friend or else you friendship is going to be ruined because its obvious hes a lil player and hes up to fun and games.
2007-06-22 07:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Evi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hey! What are you thinkin? Listen "wont change nythin between us" his got a woman and his putting your leg. Hey the dirty talk sounds good, but I gave a girl what she wanted and it was never enough. She got a man and now she's Fookin him like mad. SO listen move on find someone who ain't playing no love game!
2007-06-22 07:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gonna be hard but to let him know just exactly how much you love him and wanna be with him you need to be a good listener and help him with his problems with his gf. He will realize how much you mean to him when you stay strong and don't go crazy even though he is with someone else.
2007-06-22 07:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is help him with his problems. If he already is having problems with her, chances are it won't last long. Just be a friend and when they break up, be there for him. Once he seems over it, make a move!
2007-06-22 07:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by kyryliw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this will be really hard but tell him that u like him more than a friend and that it makes to uncomfortable to talk about him and his other and that u would like to be more than friends with him i know this will be hard b/c i was in the same position as you. things ended up working out ok
2007-06-22 07:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by sk8rgurl_20052000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abby x, Darlin it sounds like that ship has sailed. If you want him as being exclusivly yours than be honest. Some guys and girls drift just to get what they are not !
2007-06-22 07:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's setting you up for the kill. If he was a real friend, he'd respect you since he has a g.f. already.
2007-06-22 07:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by ScorpionOfLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance.you'll never know till you ask!!! :)
2007-06-22 07:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ordinary Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋