ok so heres the deal theres 2 guys and i like both of them but one of them asked me out so i said yeah. now the other one tells me that he likes me and i dont kno wut 2 do cuz i really like both of them. i can almost say im in love wit both of them. help me plz!
2007-06-22 07:17:48 · 42 answers · asked by kirstin p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not wrong, but it's not healthy either......
2007-06-22 07:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE? that a pretty strong feeling...U have to take a look from the outside...How long have u known these two? Why all the sudded u feel u love both of em, cause they asked u out?
I think U may just like the 2 very strongly. Im going to assume its 2 new relationships since they just asked u out....I think u should go out with both, but at the same time be honest with them and tell them since ur not tied down, u are open to date others....u never what could happen when ur out with each of em. Keep an open mind. Hell..if the Bachelor could do it, why cant you?
Be honest, have fun, and be fair....u shouldnt hurt any of em in the end.
good luck
2007-06-22 07:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are things you like about both of them then just make it clear to them that you are not ready for anything too serious but would LOVE to get to know them more. I'd say generally guys wouldn't care about this arrangment. I don't think you have to say, I'll be dating other people, but just be clear that you are not settling on any one commitment right now. It would be a waste to not get to know both of them at least enough to see if there is a future with one of them. Good luck and have fun!
2007-06-22 07:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by tiffanyatwell215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer the question, no it is not wrong to love two guys. it's perfectly normal and happens a lot. Actually, it's more you're attracted to two guys than it is you love two guys. the thing is don't lead them on. don't tell one guy you like/love him and then go out with another. if you want to date around then great! however, you can't play the game of "you're the only one for me" with two people. If you really care about these guys then let 'em know what's up. Over time you'll see which one is best for you, and if one gets mad and leaves then even though it hurts, it still helps you see that he wasn't the one.
2007-06-22 07:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by freedomfighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart, which ever one you think is sweeter, cuter, or better off for u, u should go out with. Since ur dating the one guy, tell the the other one that u would be willing to date him if u break up with the other guy. No, a lot of gurls like 2 guys...like me! It's ok, u can't help what ur heart tells u to do.
2007-06-22 07:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong when you date 2 guys and it is even worse when you don't tell them you are dating both of them but you can have a crush on both of them. I am dating someone but I really like someone else. Just try hard not to give in to the guy that you aren't dating but make sure the guy you are dating knows that you like HIM!!!
2007-06-22 07:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it is wrong, and it is not very smart either. You try to make it both guys, and you're going to lose both of them. Talk to your friends about. Take some time to think really hard. Consider the pros and cons of each guy. Then make a decision. That's what mature people do.
2007-06-22 07:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez! Well, you are only dating right?? Whats wrong with dating them both? Eventually you will find that you like one more than the other.... go ahead and date them both!! Thats what dating is for... finding yourself and what you need/like/dislike in a relationship. Just make sure youre not hiding it from them...that can lead to a bad situation!! GL
2007-06-22 07:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have still been talking to another guy when you said yes to the first one, you sound like you would go for anybody. Find the one you truly love, and if you love them equally and cant choose, then you dont truly love either one in my opinion.
Not being mean just telling you what I truly think.
Good Luck though!
2007-06-22 07:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um........I'm in the same exact situation. I had to choose one. and it hurt so bad to leave the other. I guess U really have to focus on both of their good and bad qualities and pick the one that's better for u. I kno they both cant be the same. It's gonna b a hard thing but if u choose to get in a relationship wit one u're gonna have to cut the other one off completely or else things will get so sloppy and complicated. Pick wat makes u happy. GOOD LUCK girl. And mayb u'll let me kno how it went. :)
2007-06-22 07:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with the one your with right now. He asked you out and if you like him then he has the right to find out where the relationship is going, you just cant stay attracted to both cause youll probably end up cheating on one of them and thats not fair. Hope this helped!!
2007-06-22 07:23:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋