Which would you rather have. My ex and I have been having amazing sex for 6 years now. It is mind blowing how good it is, but we dont want to be together. I just stated hooking up with this new guy and he wants to be with me but the sex isnt that good. What would you guys do? I dont love either of them so its more difficult bc if i loved one of them i would choose that one.
2007-06-22 07:06:04 · 28 answers · asked by sunny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure good sex is great... ive done the ex sex thing before... but.. i think that if you keep getting with him.. your not really totally putting yourself out there to find "the one" for you- a guy who you love AND have great sex with.
If you dont morally mind.. i would suggest you keep getting with your ex if thats what you wanna do.. but also date other guys (keyword.. just date.. not "be exclusive")
Then if one of these guys you date turns into something you could see being more... drop this ex. Im just scared for you when you drop the ex..... Do you really think its just gonna be drama free?
Anyways good luck!
2007-06-22 07:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without discussing the moral ramifications of the current situation all I have to ask you is one thing. If you aren't in love with someone why "hook up" with someone. Even if you are being honest with the other your are dangling a carrot in front of him with the hope that things will change one day. You and I both know they aren't. Although I don't like the situation you have with your ex, at least that is the more honest relationship. Cut the other guy loose and let him move on with his life onto someone who can give him what he needs.
2007-06-22 14:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by todd s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it...what is more important to you..?
Sex can be an amazing thing with the right person, but that is all that it is...wouldn't you rather have the best of both? great sex and a relationship where you don't have to wonder any more what you want most. Find you a man that can give you both..great sex and a fruitful relationship.
Peace. ------Duane
2007-06-22 14:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by duane b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent in a relationship with either of them, does it matter? They are both company for you.. and you are hooking up with them. Why do you have to choose?
I mean, if you HAD to choose, you would pick the one that you LIKED better... and that would be up to you, not us...
Sex is sex when there is no relationship. So if you had to choose, you have to go a step beyond that.
2007-06-22 14:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont love either of them stay with the ex and have mind blowing sex. you dont want the other guy falling in love with you if you are not going to recipricate the feeling. dont string him along. you will only hurt him.
â â
2007-06-22 14:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you don't love either of them go for what is blowing your mind and keep on enjoying what you are doing.
2007-06-22 14:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you crazy if the other guy finds out he will blow a fuse pick either one or the other as this could all blow up inn your face and remember sex is not the b all and end all.
2007-06-22 14:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by roger k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump them both . You wont ever find true love if your just going around having meaningless sex. When you fall in love you will both grow toghter to have great mind blowing sex!!!!
2007-06-22 14:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by TTTTTT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess go for the better sex . . . But I think you should wait to find the guy you DO love . Just my opinion
2007-06-22 14:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Chante Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all most guys want is a friend with benefits anyways...stick with the good sex until you find both or your ex finds a new girl
2007-06-22 14:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by jakester2199 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋