My friends all tell me that I don't try hard enough to flirt with guys and let them know I'm interested. They say that's why I don't have a boyfriend or date very often. I don't have a hard time talking to guys in general because most of my friends are guys. My problem is I don't know what to say to someone that I am interested in and want to go out with. How can I change that? (sorry if this made NO sense!)
2007-06-22 07:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by Karen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a quiet person at all. I have a lot of friends and talk a lot, but I have a hard time with one-on-one conversations with guys that aren't friends. Once we're friends it's not hard at all, it's when I don't know them and I like them that causes the problem. HELP! Any good conversations I could use that don't sound too random?
2007-06-22 07:15:04 · update #1
A little something to always remember""PEOPLE LIKE U FOR THE WAY U MAKE THEM FEEL ABOUT THEMSEVES""Laugh at a guys jokes ,notice his muccles, Flirt and touch a guys arm playfully they love it ask any guy.Be excited to hear their voice let him know u think he's all that!LOOsen up and lighten up the more you flirt the easier it becomes-u can do it girl-remember too that men naturally like women anyway so you are half way there already!!
2007-06-29 19:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by SHAY_BABY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If most of your friends are guys; they may see you as just another of their friends and not someone to date.
It is usually easiest to get guys to ask you out when they know that you are dating others. Get a couple of your guy friends to go on "friend" dates to places where the guys you want to date will be. This could let them know that you are actively dating.
Just pick friends who can keep a secret and not tell everyone what is going on. By the way, you can even use this approach and pick some one you want to date to be the "friend" date and hope that he will ask you out the next time as more than a "friend"
2007-06-22 14:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Randy C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When trying to find the right thing to say to a guy, usually it's not what you say but what you do. Try batting your eyelashes or giving him a seductive smile. Twirl your hair or just gently stick your tongue out and lick your lips. Being flirty should come natural. Make sure you wear something risky under your clothing so you will feel sexy also. Good Luck.
2007-06-22 14:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by MsLynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to not flirt I'm a very shy person and I don't flirt and I think that if we girls flirt with guys they will think that we are sluts, but I think guy come to you not you to them.(sorry if I didn't answer the correct way)
2007-06-22 14:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask some of your guy friends to help you find a BF?
2007-06-22 14:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrl let me tell u this and only this a closed mouth is a un fed mouth
2007-06-22 14:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by cake_catering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself don't listen to your friends, everytime you walk into a room of fine guys just know you are the sexiest chic in dat room BE CONFIDENT .
2007-06-22 14:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For God's sake, just be yourself. Guys will notice you. Don't rush anything.
2007-06-22 14:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to make better eye contact. Look at them and don't look away.
2007-06-22 14:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem to so don't feel bad only I'm a guy
2007-06-22 14:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by blazer45778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋