It's been less than an hour since I said my sad goodbyes to my animal companion of 17 years, Ginger. She had numerous health problems the last few years: blindness, dental problems, arthritis, and in the last few weeks senility. I had an appointment with my vet for 3:!5 PM and a small part of me didn't want to go through with it. But late this morning, Ginger started havig seizures and I saw she was in great distress. I knew then it was her time. I was able to take her right to the vet .. I stayed with her until the first injection took its full effect and I knew she was painfree at last.
Ginger was a toy poodle and my best friend. She saw me through good times and bad: the birth of two of my nieces, my parents' health problems, the breakup with one boyfriend ) and all through my present relationship. I've had two jobs, four cars, and learn many new things in the 17 years Ginger was alive. Through it all, Ginger was a great blessing in my life.
2007-06-22 06:46:34 · 25 answers · asked by susandiane311 5 in Pets ➔ Dogs
If only every animal was as lucky to have a loving, caring, wonderful companion like you...what a special place the world would be!!!
Take your time to grieve and heal, it's natural and you need it...
When you're ready, open your heart and bless another animal with such a great home...
Good luck, we understand! XXXOOO
2007-06-22 08:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by howldine 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to make the decision to let a pet go, But I know you made the right decision, thats what you have to think about that Ginger is not in pain anymore and you were able to give her the best 17 years you could. I have had to put down 2 cats and it was terribly hard especially this last time on 21 May last month. Toby Tyler was only 7 years old and he had a lump on his leg and I was praying that worse case scenario they would only have to amputate. But unfortunately the cancer had spread to his lungs and he was having a terrible time breathing. Me, mom and my sister went to the vet and made the decision and it was the hardest thing but right away we talked about the good times and said many times that he gave us and we gave him and great 7 years! You'll never stop mourning however just think of all the positive things and time you had with Ginger and it makes it much better. Sorry for you loss and sounds like you were a great mommy to Ginger always remember that, and that she was a great friend to you also!!! Lotsa love from a animal mommy !!!
2007-06-22 06:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by another brick in the wall 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain... been there, done that. Your words brought tears to my eyes. It is sooooo hard to lose your beloved friend. They love us so unconditionally, and are always there for us.
Even tho it was so difficult, you did the right thing by letting go. The ONE regret I have at the loss of my sweet Mitten (16 yr. old Sheltie mix) was that I feel like I waited a little too long. I knew she was suffering, but I just couldn't do it. I know now I was being selfish.
Ginger counted on you to take care of her... you did a good job. And someday you'll meet on that Rainbow Bridge. (If you haven't read that, just Google Rainbow Bridge... you'll feel better).
The memories will always be there of Ginger, but time does heal the hurt.
Best of luck.
2007-06-22 06:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by lady j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you're dealing with. It looks like she is suffering. Do the humane factor and positioned her at relax. you will constantly have the best techniques to maintain her spirit alive interior you. She is 13 years previous and has lived a competent life i'm specific. save a lot of imagery around of her whilst she develop into feeling extra advantageous to assist with the best techniques. that's an exceedingly annoying determination to make, even nevertheless that's the humane factor to do, whether very annoying. you're precise, no different dogs ought to probable take her place. Time will heal your sorrow. Be there together with her in case you come to a determination to place her down so she isn't afraid and tell her how lots you like her. possibly sometime yet another dogs will survive in her spirit and positioned across excitement and happiness to you. suitable desires. Letting bypass is the perfect factor to do.
2016-10-18 09:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss, but I am happy to hear that you had so many wonderful years with such a good friend. So many things change in 17 years, but our dogs' love remains the constant that helps us through it all.
Your situation is very similar to what mine was. My dog, Buddy, lived almost 18 years before he took his last trip to the vets office. He had many of the same problems your Ginger did. Finally, his last two days he completely went off of food and his last morning he almost couldn't get out of his bed.
It's been a almost 2 years since he's passed away, but I still think of him everyday. He taught me about having an undying and persistant love and devotion. I wish I was as good at giving love to my friends and family as my dog was good at giving it to me.
2007-06-22 07:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by larsor4 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I realize it must be hard. I have had a dog for only 6 months, and have quickly realized what a big part they play in our lives. Although it is a sad time, she is no longer in pain. And it is wonderful that you can look back in such a positive way. No doubt that she will truly be missed, but she wouldn't want you to be upset. Keep being strong! RIP Ginger.
2007-06-22 06:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was MOVED TO TEARS, at your question about Ginger, when you said she was having seizures, and was in great distress !!...we lost my # 1 rescue dog " BEAR" about 2 yrs ago, when he started having seizures, and was in great distress, also !! It hit me REALLY HARD, about 2 weeks after BEAR died, as to how much i MISSED AND LOVED that dog !! I spent the WHOLE day mourning and crying, and wrote an ODE TO BEAR, like an Obituary, and sent it out, to my email friends !! It is natural to GRIEVE, and feel the LOSS of a loved friend !! let your body grieve for Ginger, and allow yourself to feel the loss NOW, as opposed to delaying the grief you feel !!...try to focus on the POSITIVE, that Ginger was with you for 17 YRS, a GREAT lifetime, for a small dog !! Remember the GOOD TIMES, and the JOY and HAPPINESS, she brought into your life !!! and when time has passed, consider a new dog, to be your new friend, not to replace Ginger, yet to be a new friend and companion for you !!! RIP Ginger, for sure, and be happy in Doggy Heaven !!! my Thoughts and Condolences are with you, for the Loss of your Beloved Ginger !! be Gentle with yourself, at this time of your Loss, and allow yourself to FEEL, whatever is TRUE, for you !!.....consider, lighting a Memorial Candle for Ginger, and saying a Prayer, in her Memory !!
2007-06-22 07:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by morris the cat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I very nearly put my JRT down a few weeks ago because he is aggressive and no one wanted him around. I know the pain you are going through with such a montrous decision. But now, Ginger is in a place where the ground beneath her feet is made of doggy bones and the sky is a giant tub of icy clear, fresh water. She will always be with you, no matter where you go and remember, the world will not end without Ginger. She will live on in your heart, in your soul.
2007-06-22 06:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am SO SORRY about ur dog. She sounds like a very close friend of yours. But since she had so many health problems, I think it's best that she's free from the pain. Once again, I'm really sorry.
2007-06-22 06:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by MaYdAy PaRaDe <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear of your loss but be happy you had a great companion all those years. At least you did the right thing by putting her out of her misery. Take care and thank you for sharing.
2007-06-22 07:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋