what to say with out coming on too creepy and strong. Say the girls are laying on the beach on their towels, it takes b##ls to go up to them, what if they reject you, you feel like a smuck. Im average looking, not some hot stud with a tan and huge junk with muscles.
2007-06-22 05:42:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Notice that there are no text books on how to approach females. It is all a gamble. Be yourself. If you get shot down, so what? Do you think you're good looking? That's all that matters. Yeah, rejection sucks, but it is a life experience. There is no real right way to doing this. Different things work for different females. Just be yourself. Sure, you may stumble a bit, but as long as you show confidence without appearing too cocky, you're on the right track. Say what comes natual. Just never give up.
2007-06-22 05:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-15 13:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't try to pick up girls at the beach.
But if you must, then you have to give them the option of not being interested.
Not everyone goes to the beach to score dates. The girls who are there for other reasons should NOT be bothered by unwanted attention.
Chat.
Get to know her, give her a chance to get to know you.
But most likely, no one is looking for attention from a strange guy.
And girls aren't going to want to go out with just anyone; we like to have some idea whether we like the PERSON.
If you get conversation going, suggest a really safe date.
But don't say things about not being a creep -- that immediately says you ARE a creep.
If all you're going for are the hot babes, you're more likely to fail.
2007-06-22 16:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrighty...I have been approached in 8 million different ways...you know it's just life. Be yourself. That's what landed my guy with me...he was himself, and I thought is was downright adorable when he got nervous...lol...you know, some girls are B***** and some are not, it's truly a gamble, but don't give up!! Have fun and be safe.
2007-06-22 05:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by artform.purist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and compliment them on something (non physical). Show interest in what they have to say. Show them that you were listening and smile a lot.
Overall the biggest tip is to make sure it doesn't seem like you're trying. It should just seem like you're being natural.
Good luck!
2007-06-22 05:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by gopher646 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring your volleyball net/soccer ball/beach ball/Frisbee and say, "We need a couple more for the game over there. Wanna play?" It's up to you to start the conversation once they join you, but that's a good start!
2007-06-22 06:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by oj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"huge junk"??? Now that is funny.
Go get yourself a puppy and walk the puppy around the beach, trust me, the babes will come out of the woodwork.
2007-06-26 04:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
California girls can be tough. Try saying "Hello", a joke usually helps too.
2007-06-22 05:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by ♪ Pamela ♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til they're up by the food :-D you're more likely to get someone who'd actually eat something if you went out for dinner. Get to talking while you're in line.
2007-06-22 05:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by littlebird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for the sluttiest ones and you can pretty much approach them and say anything.
2007-06-22 05:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋