I have long sideburns. and HAIR under my jaw! im 19 yrs old female! i am afraid to tell my parents. am i ugly?

Question

i have irregular periods.

is ther any way i can see a doc with out having my parents know?

but i am not going to wax, shave, or pluck. i am going to leave the hair. i just feel so UGLY.

fat ok .. too skinny ok.. but when it comes to hairy girls.. no one likes

i need to hear words of acceptance!

I dont think ppl understand.

i feel so ugly that i cant even tel l my parents. i AM EMBRASSEd!

and no i will not get rid of it.. why cant ppl accept it? is hair really that bad? i have a good face.. and ok body.. doesnt that count for anything?

or hair is just so ugly that it overlooks everything?!

and the last person who ans said there is an act that protects me.. but i dont know a lot about insurance and copay .. and that info i will only get from my parents.

Answer 1

i dont understand why your freaking out...its okay..some people have more hair than other...you could go to a doctor but you prolly dont have too unless the hair is thick and coarse....but i dont see why you just dont use nair for face or soemthing...its not that big of deal...and having hair doesnt mean ur ugly...it

Answer 2

I think you can make appointments with out your parents consent to go to the doctors but if your feel ugly then other people will think your ugly to you need to learn to love yourself and when you get that self confidence then you will be open to new things like cutting that hair off that you hate so much and when you do make it something you do every two week just like getting your nails done make it a hobbie and trust me when you see yourself differently that alone will keep you staring in the mirror.

Answer 3

You have hormonal problems and SHOULD see a doctor. Why cant you tell your parents? This is an important issue. If they dont understand this, its pretty ridiculous. Also, I do think you should wax your sides, I wax them just cause I like a flawless look for when I put my hair up in a ponytail, but it still looks natural...just dont overdo it.
So def see a doctor, and get that wax, girl! Nothing wrong with that!

Answer 4

lots of people like hairy women - if you dont believe me, just type in 'hairy women' and see how many websites come up.

anyway, if you want to see a doctor, you are certainly old enough to do so without your parents getting involved. the doctor probably will check your hormones, and if they are abnormal will probably give you something to get the hormones regulated.

Peace+ and Good Luck!

Answer 5

Jukebox is right. It sounds like you have a hormone imbalance. You need to see a doctor.

You're over 18. Unless you need help from your parents to pay for the doctor visit, they don't have to know anything.

Answer 6

i understand im a guy yet nonetheless i will answer lol. i visit ought to declare strengthen it somewhat. i think of it would seem lots extra advantageous than modern-day in case you strengthen it. I say strengthen the perimeter, aspects and properly the finished hair. basically shelter it with the help of blowdrying it wisely and if your hair comes to a decision to develop into evil and bypass curly then straighten it =] It feels soooo lots extra advantageous having longer hair =] short sucks hehehe =]

Answer 7

If you soooo hairy then why don't your parents notice the hair?

You could always dye it if you hate it so much. I think you need to stop worry so much about what other people think.

Answer 8

Just get the laser facial hair treatment or just pluck it serious because I wouldn't like my girl kissing me with a mustache.

Answer 9

You're over 18, you are protected under HIPAA privacy act. If you go to the doctor it's between you and him/her.

Answer 10

umm tell ur parents cuz mayb they can find asome way 2 help u and then they'll think ur MORe trustworthy and then u win