Im trying harder to be a good Christian but its hard sometimes. Is it wrong to have sexual conversations with a guy that I like a lot?
2007-06-22 03:02:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Of course it is hard for you when you place yourself in the wrong situation, a sexual conversation leasds to sex usualy,and if you really do want to be a good Christian you have to know that God says that sex is for married people so if you were planing to marry you would need to talk about your plans and sexual expectations yes, but you would still need to steer clear of a sexual conversation that will stimulate your sexual desire for this person until you are able to have sex legaly in God's eyes, this will make you a better Christian, the Bible tells us to deaden our sexual apetiteas respects to fornication and uncleanness for on account of these these things God's wrath is coming.(Colosians3:5,6)
2007-06-22 03:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No it is not wrong to have a sexual conversation with someone. But you trying to be good christian it may spoil your mind. It may tempt you to think unrighteous things in a sexual way. Being a true christian as you want to be our father Jesus Christ won't like it i believe! So it is better to keep out of such things.
2007-06-22 05:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have conversations about sex the boogeyman will eat you in your sleep. (joking)
If you are trying hard to be a good christian, you should evaluate your choice of religion over spirituality.
Being Christian is about mental slavery to the imaginary. Sex and procreation is as real as your feelings. Think on those.
2007-06-22 05:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rothwyn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong to have sexual conversations with a guy that you like a lot.
2007-06-22 03:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The question should be, what does it mean to be a "good Christian?" When we accept Jesus into our lives, we either accept Him as LORD over everything, or not at all - there is no in between.
If we accept Him as LORD, we have told God that we are submitting our entire lives to Him and that our lives are meant to glorify Him.
Of course, we will fall a lot. That's where His grace comes in. But we still are meant to strive toward perfection, to be like Christ, in everything in our lives (which are no longer ours, but God's).
When it comes to relationships, this, as in any part of our lives, should also be submitted to God. Remember, scripture says that even thinking lustfully is committing adultery. Unless this guy is your husband (it doesn't matter if he will be in the future - he is not your husband now), you are committing adultery. Scripture also says to avoid any hint of impurity.
Also, why do you like this guy? If you want to glorify God, the man you should be interested in should be one who loves God with all His heart. He should also be a spiritual leader. If he is having sexual conversations with you, it sounds like he is neither (or that he has much maturing to do).
Remember, our lives are no longer our own - they are God's. We are meant to glorify Him.
I am teaching a course on relationships. If you have any more questions, please feel free to email me through my profile. God bless.
2007-06-22 03:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by TWWK 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No. And, if you wind up having sex, if nobody is hurt physically or emotionally, that probably isn't morally wrong either. Don't make any babies you both don't want to create.
2007-06-22 03:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really sincere in trying to follow the teachings of your faith about chastity, why put yourself in such a pressure-cooker situation? Be kind to yourself and date in groups and avoid putting yourself in very private situations. It's cruel to you and him too. No one is anyone's toy or experimental lab rat. Today's consumer culture of instant gratification commodifies sex and violence and tries to make us believe we are mentally insufficient and less than human if we don't buy into its shallow false philosophy of what a human being is.
2007-06-22 03:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by jaicee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your age, how long you know this person and whether or not this person likes you, or if your just a piece of *** too him.
Morally wrong--I think so...
Could you get hurt? Yes you really can..I would think about it first.
2007-06-22 03:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by chersa 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't be silly. It's called "getting to know each other." Everyone does it.
2007-06-22 03:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and have sex instead of worrying for an invisible man on your roof.
2007-06-22 03:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by X Theist 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋