What does it mean if the kids in high school who live next door to you choose to run your life?

Question

Intellegent answers only please, phsycologically speaking-what are they missing that would give them interest in me?

if god is a merciful god, why does he punish me this way?

am i hot? no, not at all, I'm 115 pounds with short red hair. My teeth have rotted from years of abuse and I just want to be left alone. Why do people think you need help? Flatter themselves? I think so.

i suspect they're lazy kids who don't want to get jobs and support themselves in any way, thus leaving me the burden of pampering their sad little selves.

Answer 1

well I think I will start by repharsing your question......what does it mean if the kids in high school who live next door are trying to run my life and I am letting them. You see no one can run your life unless you allow them to do so . So I think the real question and answer is within yourself. Why do you allow this..

Answer 2

Your answer is all about CHOICE. The people next door cannot run your life unless you choose to allow it. God has nothing to do with this. He gives you free will. He values individual choices....and he freely gives this to you and me. Ask for his help and he will give it. But for heaven sake...if He lets you have choices....why would He intervene so that the neighbors now have it over you? There are people in this world who have to try to manipulate and have power over others to make themselves feel 'whole'. Notice it doesn't happen to everybody they encounter....do you know how they pick out who they try this with? It only works if the victims choose to be victims. This doesn't happen with everybody they pick on because others don't allow it. This is a learning experience for you. If you don't learn how to handle these situations now....it will come up again and again in your life. These people exist everywhere. Have more self esteem and self confidence....be outraged if someone would think of trying to control you.....not sorrowful and victimized. Or, trust me....you'll be a victim all your life.

Answer 3

Being lonely isn't possibly that undesirable in a fashion, while that's from time to time basically intentional or maybe a passing 2d that could or not that's.. yet HATRED that fills the middle and concepts makes it not purely a worse employer, that's depressing for one to maintain with, And it could in many cases even stubbornly stay longer at cases. i might desire to appreciate the discomfort of ailment, vacancy, harm and of my bitter sorrows, yet please permit it not be sure with consistent hate.. Hate the harbinger of infinite miseries and greater harm, while that's overwhelmingly stubbornly concepts-blowing from different kinds of thoughts or concepts. Have a brilliant 2d..! Cheers!

Answer 4

Have you ever thought that they are trying to help you because they like you? Maybe they see that you are missing something and they want to help you get there. No one can run your life unless you let them. Ask them yourself why they do what they do or say what they're saying. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

NO ONE can choose to run your life. You have to choose to let them. You in fact have to invite them to do so, which you apparently have done, in that you do not stop their attempts.
I suspect all your neighbor is trying to do is help you, and you resent that.
I suggest that you have poor self image, with a depressive component and need therapy.

Answer 6

YOU need to see a counselor, QUICK!

Answer 7

it means you have NO back bone
You allow him/her to run your life ?

Or do you mean RUIN ?

Answer 8

r u hot?