I am 48 years old. I still have not found a Woman that has the same Love and interests as me.?

Question

What should I do?

Answer 1

I'm 38 and still trying to get my first kiss, my first date and my first relationship.

I'm afraid some people are destined to be always alone. I guess after a certain age, you have to learn to be self-contained and never need anyone.

Answer 2

Are you trying to say you are a virgin?
Well, if you have not found a love relationship by the age of 48, I would say that deep down in your heart of hearts you probably don't won't one or need one. If it were a deep burning need, you would have been out looking to fulfill that hunger.
In a relationship, commonality of interests is not as important as commoanlity of direction: you both the want the same things in life and are headed in the same direction.
You both have the same purpose.
What is your purpose? What direction are you heading? The more you know about yourself, the easier it is to share with someone else...and mutual sharing is the essence of a relationship.

Answer 3

If you wanted to find a woman you would have done it by now. I'd relax if I were you........ and maybe seek out groups of people who feel like you do about your interest. As an example, let's say you like remote control race cars... seek out a group of people who stage races on the weekends. Or if you are into sci fi movies, find a convention. If you are into God, find a church that has a singles group.

But mostly, I would say that by now you are pretty set in your ways, so to add someone to your life would mean making some severe changes. Are you ready for that?

Answer 4

I can certainly understand your desire to marry. However, if you have received Jesus as your Savior and Lord you need not allow this desire to influence your thoughts so much that you lose your joy and spiritual effectiveness. Rather than spending your energy being concerned over your problem, commit it to the Lord, and He will direct in this as in every other matter of life; see Proverbs 3:5-6 and Psalm 32:8. As you commit yourself completely to Christ, you may be assured that His love will provide the best for your life. If marriage is included in God's plan for your life, make certain that you consider marriage only to someone who knows and loves the Lord and intends to make Christ the center of the relationship (1 Corinthians 7:39).

It is important to remember that it is not necessarily God's will for everyone to marry. We often emphasize Genesis 2:24: "Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh," to the exclusion of 1 Corinthians 7:7: "I wish everyone could get along without marrying, just as I do. But we are not all the same. God gives some the gift of a husband or wife, and others he gives the gift of being able to stay happily unmarried" (TLB). In the 1 Corinthians passage, Paul confirms that God does give the gift of being and remaining single to some persons. Every Christian must answer for himself the question, "Is it God's will that I marry?" God never plans anything for us except what is best. Whether married or single, you can become a truly fulfilled individual by following the Lord's plan and purpose for your life. Perhaps the Lord is leading you out into an area of service for Him.
I encourage you to fellowship in a gospel-preaching church and other Christian organizations in your area where you will gain friendships and find opportunities for service. If you have not already done so, organize your day so that you will have a special time to spend alone with God. Be sure that you do not neglect this "quiet time," for this communion with our Lord will give you power to overcome the enemy, to live above your circumstances, and to become a victorious Christian.

Answer 5

They tell me the Woman outnumber the men 3 to 1 in Newcastle. Might be worth a try.

Answer 6

Love and Understanding between two souls can come at whatever age it might be! Believe me ... am not just posting words to comfort you ... it can happen in a way you can never imagine ... just don't pick up any choice at random to just catch the title of being "married" never coz its consequences would be destructive ... it is better to fetch down your ownself and to trust your beliefs that it will soon come no matter ... start dealing and mingling much more in communities around and somehow love will strike your heart ... sooner or later it had to come true.

Answer 7

Honestly , it is really tough to find . Just open your heart and keep looking around . Hmm , anyway why don't you try to adjust your interest . .. to fit for a relation ? Why not? 48 years old is not young anymore . Not every one is perfect and suitable for your requirement . OPEN YOUR HEART ! Well , love sometimes needs sympathy to match two souls together .

Answer 8

I'm in the same boat and I will be 40 in September. When you find out the answer contact me so I can follow up the same way.

Answer 9

I would rather be picky than settle for second best, why don't you try to look for her where your interests are, I mean what are your hobbies what are your interests, that's where those women with the same interests will be. Good luck :)

Answer 10

you have not looked hard enough. you have to put yourself out there and be the bait. or go fishing yourself. there are many fishes in the sea. you just need to have good bait. make sure you dont catch a shark. there is always someone for everyone. good luck and happy life.