Ok here's the deal...bout 5 months ago my co-worker blurted out to me his feelings for me to the heart...that everytime he sees me walk by he cant help but talk to me & wana go out to lunch & get 2 know me & all. Ive never gave him the time a day but still to this day he he never gave up. But now is like i see him in another light & he'd take me home and we'd talk & i like his company ALOT...problem is he's back with his ex-gf :( ...that they've been on & off for 5 years but now he's super confused because he admitted he fell deeply inlove with me...but he doesnt know how to break it to her because he doesnt wana hurt her cause she has health issues & he's afraid how she'll take it...so today he pulled me aside & told me he didnt wana lead me on that it kills him 2 let me go but he cant abandon her right now...suxs but im just glad nothing went any further with us like sexually & all...so guys what do u think? he aint leaving her huh?
2007-06-22 01:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by I♥OTH 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope do not go out with a guy from work
2007-06-22 01:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, he isn't going to leave her! Although I know he prolly cares for her especially since they've been dealing with each other for 5yrs if he really wanted to leave her he would leave, her health is just an excuse because nobody is saying that they can't remain friends so he can always still stay in touch with her and check up on her, and as for how she will take it if he doesn't feel the way he should about her & his relationship (which is evident by they way he claims to feel about you) their relationship is already over, only she doesn't know it yet and he is just in denial. My advice is stay as far away as possible from this guy or you will find yourself in her shoes one day.
2007-06-22 08:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Carl T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might leave her, but it seems that he's with her for sympathy.
I had a similar situation, except for MY coworker told me that if he wasn't with his girlfriend (of 3 years), then he'd go out with me. I only found out that he had a girlfriend very recently and I got quite distraught by it. Unfortunately, I was the one that blurted out my feelings and now he acts differently around me. He pretty much led me on.
But in any case, just continue being his friend and see where it goes. Be patient.
2007-06-22 08:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you.
If he really likes and wants to date you he will break it off with the other girl, health issues or not.
IMO if someone is in the same department as you they are not on the "dating radar".
2007-06-22 08:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might, he should stay with her because of her problem. If he really likes you and says he does then that shouldn't stop him. He shouldn't stay with a person if he isn't really that into her.
2007-06-22 08:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defenetly not. thats the lamest excuse he could make about the health of her gf. just find somebody else out of work.
2007-06-22 09:45:48 · answer #6 · answered by karabo m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not unless he can break it to her in a gentle way, or they go though another patch again.
2007-06-22 08:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋