I am ugly. What should I do?

Answer 1

And just who decided that you are ugly? Everyone has positive and negative points both physically and otherwise. Accentuate the positive and don't worry about the negative.

It's not what's below the neckline.... It's what's behind the eyes.

Best of Luck to You!!!

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Answer 2

You know what makes some one a good looking person most of the time is being funny. I had a really good friend and he was a little more than ugly, but he was so funny. All of the time he had everyone around him laughing. It was non-stop.

Anyways I would introduce him to girls all of the time and it was the same thing. At first look they were not feeling it at all, but after the first few times of doing this, I would just tell the girls whatever. I would do this because they would be talking about Jeff, this and Jeff that, in about a week. He had all kinds of girls chasing him around.

I would try the same thing. Learn to be funny. I know this can be done. Watch a ton of stand up comedy. Learn some of the jokes, learn what makes something funny and what doesn't. You can do this. It doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl.

You may feel you are ugly, but I promise there is some one out there for you. Just because you feel you are ugly doesn't make it so. My wife for many years didn't feel she was pretty, she only felt like she was average at best. Yet, guys are falling all over themselves to try to meet her. It really is self perception. We are always harder on ourselves than we need to be.

Good luck with this!

Answer 3

First, you look at the qualities you possess, the qualities that make you the person that you are. These have nothing to do with physical appearance.

Write them down.

Be honest, not super-critical. Take more than a few seconds, and think about it deeply. Again. ....be honest.

If you wish, ask a friend to describe what good qualities he/she finds in you. Obviously, they have seen something because that is why they chose you to be a friend.

Now ignore the preconceived image you have of yourself and look at yourself on paper and see what a great person is shown on that paper....that is the real you.



Ask yourself: How do you know you are truly ugly?

If you have missing teeth, a broken nose, or some other physical damage, then these can be repaired.

If you are a normal teenager then you are one of millions who feel that way about themselves. Peer pressures and new hormones have that effect.

Be assured, changes are sure to follow.

Even if you are much older, a couple of cliches may be appropriate:

"One man's meat is another man's poison."
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

Physical appearance is just one of many things involved in finding ....and keeping....friends, lovers and spouses.

We all have ideals, but they are often unrealistic, and as regards physical appearances, they are superficial.

Also, reality plays a VERY important role in our lives and we change.
As humans we adapt to change. We meet new people and have new experiences. We alter our perspectives and we change our interpretations. We become less shallow in our thinking. We adopt some of the changes unto our selves and they become part of us.

Attraction happens between people and very often neither party can define its reason. It actually can happen very quickly. The attraction leads to an interest that looks for its cause, which leads to learning much more about the other person, and developing a relationship. What might otherwise be looked at differently becomes fully accepted, by both people.

The opposite sometimes applies as well. Take the example of an outstandingly beautiful woman/handsome man. People can, and often do, feel self-conscious and even intimidated by them.

A question that is often asked is "How does someone who looks like that end up with a wife/husband that is so utterly gorgeous?"

It may well have started with : because he/she had the courage to ask that beautiful person for a date.

And then, the beautiful person looked beneath the surface, and found something truly likable, and desirable.

Answer 4

First of all, you have an ugly mentality. That is the basis of your insecurity. You should excercise because it helps the body from the inside and the out. It creates a youthful glow. Also, take days to pamper yourself. Bubble baths, exfoliate, moisturize, etc- they almost always do the trick when I am feeling less than mediocre.

Answer 5

If you think of yourself as ugly, you'll be ugly (in your own eyes). You have good features, I'm sure. Build them up, & work on the things you don't like. No one is perfect, and we all have 2 do the same thihg. "There's somene for everyone", as the saying goes. Look at yourself in a kind, loving way. Love yourself.

Answer 6

If you feel you are ugly then you are ugly but if you build up your self esteem then you can become one of the most beautiful persons walking this earth but you must believe it in order for it to be true.

Answer 7

Everyone has something beautiful about themselves ! Treat yourself to a day spa and a new hair style, acieve some goals youve always wanted to do, think about the great things about who you are (looks and personality wise). Work towars changing the things that you don't like about yourself. If you are overweight start a healthy lifestyle plan. Hate your hair? go get a cut & color. Bad skin? start a cleansing routine with good products and eat/drink water and antioxodants. There is a solution !!

Answer 8

Who said you`re ugly?

Answer 9

Date other ugly people.

Answer 10

What makes you think you are ugly? Try a different hair style or buy yourself a new outfit.