tips for a single guy................................ girls only?

Question

what do you girls wont from men reilly. how would a guy like myself meat girls its akwerd walking up to random girls at the store and talking to them and if i do what do i say and useing the internet for this sort of thing is for pepole with no cofindens so how whould i meat girls at malls and stuff like what should i say or do i am not bad looking and i am confident so help if you can

all good stuff but what would be a good ice breaker at a mall or super store and whould it be creapy for you girls if someone started talking to you at the store and if so were whould be a good place for picking up

Answer 1

just be true!. also girls wanted a sweet and clean looking guy..

Answer 2

It doesn't matter if u are not physically attractive looks are not the main thing. Number one well for me anyway is personality. Just be urself dont let anyone tell u u need to change the person u are.Become good friends with some girls, just the let the true u shine and u will attract people also if a girl tells u she thinks u are attractive dont contradict her. Chances are u dont see urself very clearly. Use ur confidence to ur advantage and remember always smile and try to look approachable be friendly to everyone. Good luck :) Remember there is only one girl out there who was really meant for u.

Answer 3

The key is to have confidence, even if u have none at all!!! LOL . Think about it, she doesnt know you, so she doesnt know if your shy, or if u studdder or WHATEVER////so just walk up and start talking. SHake her hand, tell her ur name, ask hers, and then" Well I was on my way out , but I saw you and hads to come say Hi. and I was wondering if I could get your number and call you later." if she says no...oh well, and if she says yes, there you go. if SHE does happen to say No, just say " Ok, well maybe I'll see you around then" and leave. if you walk with your head high and pep in your step, she 85% of the time wont say no. Now my friend all u have to learn is what to do when she approaches you ;)

Answer 4

Don't ask so many questions...it just shows that your insecure about this. I understand though, it's hard for everyone...and sorry...the old wise tale is true, we have no idea what we want.

But personally...what I want...is a man who will open doors for me, doesn't feel like less of a man to cook for me, who is funny, won't talk down to me, won't belittle me, won't tell me what to do. I can't stand it when a man thinks he can boss me around...I put that man in his place before he could put me in mine. An ultimate goal of mine is that when I'm with someone for a long time that when I go out alone with friend or something that they ask where my guy is. That means that we are a true couple and that it's weird seeing one without the other.

Answer 5

well when in the store reach past a girl and pick up the same thing and make a flirty comment.

Answer 6

JUst be yourself and try to be friendly. Introduce yourself or observe things that she likes around the mall and try to make a comment about it...

Answer 7

try to be funny, but not too funny. be nice, but don't use cliches. i presonally don't like when guys approach me in the street, transport or at the malls. cafes and clubs would do good

Answer 8

just say something like 'did it hurt?'.....and shell be like 'what?'
then you say 'when you fell from heven?'
hahaha its soooo CORNY but its a crackup
girls love the funny guys especially when u just meet them....even using something reallly corny like that could just be a really funny convosation starter
Great question by the way!!...its so hard just to get a convosation started .....

Answer 9

if ur not badlooking and very confident, y do u still need tips on how to get girls? I mean its strange. They should be coming after u.

Answer 10

if you really want to get to a conversation started, start by being helpful and polite, if she has any bags in her hand, or is looking for something give her a hand and that will defiantly get the conversation flowing