how to forgive and be positive?

Question

in few minutes?

Answer 1

to forgive is a long time process.it takes time and depends on the impact of damage that has been done. soon it heals but it leaves a scar. forgiveness frees my soul from being the captives of the past. no one is perfect as they say, we are inevitable from mistakes. as day goes by i learn to accept and embraces the the truth and learn from the things that had happened. acceptance is the key to forgiveness and positivity.

Answer 2

Don't forget that you are not forgiving for someone else. You are forgiving for yourself, so that you do not carry around the resentment that you would have if you didn't forgive. That's a truth that needs to be rediscovered by today's people.

It's not for them, it's for you.

Notice how you feel when you do it, is there not a release of anger? That's called peace. An accurate definition of peace is: cessation of againstness. Only you can decide that for yourself-- to cease to be against another person. The other person might not take that tact with you, so do not depend upon their forgiveness. You can forgive, you can only decide to love another person, no one can decide for you.

Forgive and gain peace.

Answer 3

Who are we forgiving? Is it someone else? For me I look at
it like this. I know what a dog I have been. If I can forgive
me then I can forgive anybody. How do I forgive myself? I
have to understand that God forgives. If I couldn't forgive
myself, or someone else, it would be like sin is uglier for me
than for God. The person needing forgiveness needs to ask
for forgiveness. Not a clue who needs it.

Answer 4

i decided that ill be forgiving because at the end of the day it frees me more than it does the other person when you dont forgive your in a little prison whereby the person you have a grudge with carries the key for that reason i forgive i also consder that i always ask God for mercy so i have to also frogive first though i admit it aint easy

Answer 5

Think of the person's good qualities and the lovable parts of them. Remember they're human and make mistakes just like you. In your mind tell them you forgive them and mean it, even if they don't feel the same. Then take a deep breath and let your anger or whatever negative feeling go.

Answer 6

Just by thinking that the weak can never forgive,it is done only by those who r strong and also that always forgive ur enemies, nothing annoys them more than that.Also,engage ur mind in other activities to forget that.
Hope this helps! :0)

Answer 7

don't try to forgive, try to use your time in other activities and then how you forgive you will don't know.In life nothing is important then yourself so respect yourself and try to make happy yourself by doing this your thought become positive.one time more - when you will neglect all other thing and give importance to your work and yourself then it's very easy to forgive.


Dream no small dreams for they have no power to move the hearts of men.

Answer 8

relax your mind n think of all the good stuff..everyone needs to forgive n forget in order to recieve it

Answer 9

It takes time you will have some mixed feelings at forst but as time goes on you will be positive