My boyfriend *&* I were having a hard time and we were on the verge of breaking up. He cheated on me *&* i ended up sleeping with someone close to him.
A couple days ago, out of nowhere, we realized we can't live without each other. He told me what happened with the other girl but i didnt have the heart to tell him about me *&* the guy i cheated with. He'd hate me forever. Everything is great now and i love him more than ever.
We realized yesterday that i was a few days late. I told the guy i cheated with and he said that im going to have an abortion if i am. My boyfriend has been amazing and said whatever happens we'll deal with together. I dont have the heart to have an abortion so what do i do? how do i get rid of him? i regret telling him anything now. Can i tell him i started my period so he'll leave me alone *&* quit telling me what im going to do. I need advice and suggestions.
I know i shouldve cheated. it was the biggest mistake of my life.
2007-06-21 21:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you say you are meant to be-then tell him the truth! a relationship built on lies is bound to come crashing down-u forgave him-i am sure he will forgive u!
u didnt mention what the chances were that the baby could be your bfs or the other guys,
but u need to discuss it with your boyfriend-i no its gonna be hard, but for him, u and the baby no more cheating or lies,
good luck
2007-06-21 21:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by gem w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other guy can't make you have an abortion. If you haven't told your boyfriend you cheated, you need to level with him. If you're pregnant, you have a lot of options. You can always tell the guy you cheated with that it's not his. Or you can sue him for child support. Or you and your boyfriend can get married and raise the kid, although if you're both cheating on each other, you should probably get counseling to make sure you've resolved the underlying issues first. You may have been immature when you cheated, but you can learn an important lesson and grow up.
2007-06-22 04:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can force you to do something that you do not want to do. if your pregnant and you want to raise the baby on your own then you can do just that. and if your boyfriend wants to stay with you then more power to the both of you, as for the other guy tell him thank you for your opinion but im going to descide whats best for me, stop asking and i'll tell you when i know, if u want to know. good luck.
2007-06-22 04:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by craftyttangl254 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no control...since he doesnt want it have him to sign over his rights if his. Concentrate on ur relationship. Simply tell the other guy to kick rocks!! Hes old news and bad news!
2007-06-26 00:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by mz_kekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋