2007-06-21 19:13:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My new husband is bothered by the fact that I am upset by an incident in a past relationship. I just found out a few weeks ago that my ex wassleeping around and using drugs behind my back. Now, I've JUST found out, and I try really hard to let it go, but it's just fresh information in my mind. I have realized that until I go and confront him, I won't be able to let it go. My husband is supportive, but I think it hurts him to see me this upset by the situation. I really can't blame him, though. It IS a past relationship. Also, I've been beaten on in several past relationships and while my husband has helped me get past it for the most part, I occasionally flinch or run when he raises his voice or when we get in an argument. It's like, I know he'd never hurt me in any way, but my subconcious or something is afraid of getting hit again.
2007-06-21 19:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iv been there done that!!! heres one thing you can know, im 15. So either listen to me or dont, everyone thinks im young and dont know ****, but i can give some good advice when it comes to things like L.O.V.E. My opinion is if your hurting that bad, and she lives right across from you. Maybe you should take a few days and go on vacation. Meet new people, explore the world, and give it some thought. Vegas with some friends, or a beach vacation to yourself. YOur choice, but either way being around her isnt helping. Getting your heart broken is VERY painful. I know and im sorry you have to go through this. But time heals ALL wounds. THis is gay but go to youtube and watch heartbroken videos. It really helped me relize alot of things and got me through it. I will always have feelings for him, but now i move on. Remember you have a life to. And one girl isnt worth it. There are so many girls out there who are ment to be yours, your job is to pick one. But staying in the house isnt helping, get out an explore. They wont just come to you, you have to look to. I know it seems like shes the only one, but trust me youll get over that and you will find another girl. Maybe write her a letter, move out and get a new place. Tell her where you come from and how you feel, and just before you leave, put it by her door. If she has a heart, and if what you guys had was true love. Shell call. I wish the best of luck to you(:
2016-05-17 08:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to. I'm really mellow&optimistic all of a sudden though. No idea why, but it's pretty rad.
&I thought this quote would go good here 2. Buddha, I believe.
"A spoonful of salt in a glass of water makes the water almost undrinkable, but a spoonful of salt in a lake will go unnoticed."
2007-06-21 19:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap just a few stuff bad and good. but sometimes i wanna hold on and others i wanna let go. but its especially hard when someone comes with the baggage.
2007-06-21 21:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But I'm trying hard to let it go.
2007-06-21 19:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But I'm trying to let it go.
2007-06-22 10:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes, past relationship trust issues. but i try to keep them minimal. some are easier to let go of than others.
2007-06-22 00:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by KISS MY neice33 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betcha, but I'm working on it. I wanna travel light, not to mention who wants to live with the past?
2007-06-21 19:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a little
2007-06-21 19:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and as long as I can I will carry them
2007-06-21 21:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋