i was just fingered for the first time, i am a virgin too. it was rather rough fingering, and when he did it it kind of hurt but not enough for me to say stop. and now that i am home i feel discomfort and there was some brown and partialy clear discharge on my underwear. i doubt this is normal, but is it? what does that discharge mean, and does this discomfort signal something bad? what does all of this mean. please help, because i am kind of scared and concerned.
2007-06-21 19:08:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
oh and i'm not on my period at the moment. i'm not suppost to get it for about two more weeks.
and no, i am not on birth control.
2007-06-21 19:09:34 · update #1
Alot of people answering this have some atrange ideas!
Dont worry - this is very normal - next time just ask him to be a little bit more gentle! Does he know your new to this?
Now, from the other answers i have read - you are not pregnant - sperm cant come froma guys fingertips - that is absolutely ridiculous - that person is either trying to scare you, or is a complete idiot!
Secondly, you are still a virgin - dont worry about that. It is unlikely that your hymen was broken through fingering, but even if it was - you are still a virgin. The hymen can break through sports etc - this doesnt mean you lost your virginity. You choose who you lose this to the first time you have full intercourse.
Dont be scared or concerned - you are ok. Any discomfort will go away soon.
Good luck - enjoy everything, but stay safe, and dont go further than you want to, and ignore some people on here!! lol.
2007-06-21 22:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a virgin to have a clearish- brown discharge and discomfort the first time you have any type of sexual contact. It is nothing to worry about, give it 2-3 days and the discomfort and discharge should go away.
2007-06-21 19:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you! It's all perfectly normal, the clear gooey stuff is lubrication that your body makes when you get sexually stimulated and it happens to every girl, don't worry. The brown mixed with it is just a little bit of blood (it turns brown as it oxidizes) and it's perfectly normal, you're a virgin and your vagina is not used to being used in that way, that's why you're sore. Don't worry, OK. You are still a virgin and there is nothing wrong with you. Remember that you can always let somebody know if they're being to rough, don't be embarrassed to ask them to take it slow, it's your body. Don't worry it's all good :)
2007-06-21 20:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum probable, once you first get fingered, or the 1st couple of cases, you bleed somewhat from probable breaking your hymen. this might reason a touch bit bleeding and the blood alongside with your discharge could supply you gentle brown discharge. that is probable no longer something, yet once you certainly must be reassured with the help of a professional, then you definately can bypass to the regular practitioner. :)
2016-10-18 08:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that it was rough can mean you have a little bleeding, i have had that a couple times when i got too rough. dont panic, the clear might be your own fluids comming out too, the brown is not brown its blood. the discomfort will go away in a couple days and everything should be back to normal. shower if you can and clean yourself a bit, maybe that will help you.
2007-06-21 19:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before fingering, you have to have a clean hands or wash it before inserting to the vagina. are you sure its not your ovulation period or nearly menstruating? if youre not, discomfort means there is abnormality, do the discharge had foul odor? if yes, it may means theres infection. dont be scared, it is treatable with antibiotics and good hygiene. fingering is not bad, as long as your hands are clean
2007-06-21 19:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by romzky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The brown color is just a little bit of blood from when he tore your hymen by forcefully fingering you. When it hits the air it turns a different color. And you're still a virgin!! There wasn't any penis penetration.
2007-06-21 21:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have to ask these questions on Yahoo is the very reason you shouldn't be engaging in sexual activities until you are Married!
The brownish discharge is probably from your hymen being at least partially torn. The clear discharge is from your vagina being sexually stimulated.
2007-06-21 19:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it could be old blood. don't worry, it's not harmful. it could be there if he pushed to far back and maybe ripped or torn some lining. it will heal itself, just rest for a few days. hope this helps. it not, there is always webmd.com. that site is really helpful.
2007-06-21 19:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you broke your hymen. the clear fluid is probably just your vaginal secretions from being aroused. dont be scared. brown instead of red is because there is not that much blood to drain.
2007-06-21 19:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋