just because they were elder to you and you were younger than them? or the other way around
i was the youngest in the family, my sister got away with everything. i was not that lucky i had three faces staring down at me when something went wrong in my life....
2007-06-21 18:09:58 · 13 answers · asked by Piggy 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my older brother had a lot of problems growing up, he was in a gang and he stole from my parents and did drugs so u know he got all the attention and then 3 yrs ago he died and my parents are just now getting to know me, they never knew how much they neglected me until after he died, but i was also the good kid that preferred to be alone, i knew he needed them.
2007-06-21 18:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am the youngest in my family, and actually, I was the one that was spoiled. I got away with the most things and had to do the least chores... I don't know why, but my parents had just loosened up by the time I came around. Life was only unfair to me if I made stupid choices of my own.
2007-06-21 18:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by Erased 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was the oldest and my younger brother and sister got away with everything. They always started fights and my brother would physically attack me with wooden sticks and metal poles and the like. He would also randomly start being super mean to me. My sister always jumped on my back and hit me and swore at me. And noone believed me and there sides were alwways taken and I got in trouble cause my siblings lied about me.
2007-06-21 18:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sucked for me.
I am a twin - have a twin brother.
Another set of twins also in the family - also boys (more brothers)
They got everything... I got nothing.... and I had to wear 'boy's clothes since they already had three pairs of everything!
I ended up being a tomboy out of all that.
:-(
2007-06-21 23:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by • Koala • uʍop ɹǝpun 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, same way here
the youngest may get spoiled, but when it comes to the blame game, all fingers are on you...and if you didn't confess (and managed to get away with it) you'll either be sent to your room or (like me) get beat up by your older siblings.
I remember doing something really bad, and my father wouldn't stop giving me and my siblings whippings until one of us confessed.
I had a sore butt, but that was one helluva pay back, I kept my trap shut for as long as I could handle it, just so my siblings could get some extra concentrate of their own medicine
2007-06-21 18:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by it's National Security 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the oldest and have been pushed off to the side and forgotten about. All we do is fight now becuase of those little RATS because they have NO discipline, they run wild, completely RUIN and TRASH the house, and they get away with it! But nooo, I smack them for being monsters or even tell them "No!" and all hell breaks loose!
Life's not fair is it? :(
2007-06-21 18:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Ember 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 04:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the oldest of two, by three years, things in our house hold were for the most part fair and even.
2007-06-21 18:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lazrus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the youngest as well and my siblings think my life was greater than theirs.
2007-06-21 18:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life sucked equally for all of us
2007-06-21 18:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋