im worried about breastfeeding because i never had a baby b4 but when men suck on my boobs i enjoy it sexually. will that go away once the baby gets here? I wont feel comfortable breast feeding if its enjoyable in " that way"
2007-06-21 18:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
The feeling is COMPLETELY different. You will feel emotionally bonded with your baby while nursing and still will be able to be sexually stimulated by your partner.
It's hard to explain, but I promise you it's not the same at all.
2007-06-21 21:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U got nothing to worry abt because the 2 individuals will stimuklate U in 2 different ways.
First the baby. when the baby sucks the breast, the area that is mostly stimulated is the areola, the pigmented area surrounding the nipple. The nipple acts just like a straw in drinks. The objective of the baby is to get nourishment in the form of food. Ur intention of giving ur breast to ur baby will also condition U not to get sexually stimulated. No mother gets sexually stimulated with her offspring.
Second, the father or whoever the man is. His prime objective in having ur breast is for sexual pleasure and U are certain he does so. The mere mental conditioning will shift that feeding mode to a sexual mode. The manipulation of the man on ur breasts (2 breasts) will be focused on ur nipples and and the areas around it . Plus other areas of concern. This is sexually arousing. When this happens, U will still enjoy "breast feeding" getting "that way" where U it matters most! :-)
2007-06-22 02:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by RHENE 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you wouldn't feel comfortable breastfeeding if it's enjoyable in "that way" - and it isn't. It's a whole different feeling and the hormones are different. You are daring and brave to ask this question and you deserve a pat on the back rather than just refusing to breastfeed. Your body can produce enough food for that baby to sustain it completely and that's what it was made to do. Breastfeeding won't causes any sexual feelings or desires while the baby is eating, so don't worry.
2007-06-22 01:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by WrinkleFree 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Our boobs are dual purpose - one is sexual, the other is to provide nutrition for our babies. You have to conceptualize it that way, else you may not enjoy the whole breastfeeding experience.
I have heard that some women do get turned on when breastfeeding.
Why don't you take it as it comes, and don't forgo the wonderful breastfeeding experience...
2007-06-22 01:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by aka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it's totally different. You won't get a sensation out of breastfeeding like that. There isn't "pleasure" in it. The baby is sucking just to get the milk. In fact, it will probably hurt at first because of way the baby latches on.
2007-06-22 01:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by cmortality 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's a very different sensation - nursing rather than sexual foreplay. I've nursed my 4 kids and I still enjoy it when my hubby does that to me, but it's vastly different than what it felt like to nurse. Nursing is a bit more..... intense. Like comparing a little hickey like sensation to a vacuum hose. Or a barracuda. *grin*
I loved the fact that I was FEEDING the baby all by myself, with milk that I made. It was really cool.
I hope you enjoy breastfeeding! It was the most amazing bonding experience I've ever had with my kids!
2007-06-22 01:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Trust me that will be the last thing you will be thinking about once breastfeeding, it will hurt and probably feel extremly weird and uncomfortable at first.
You will get such a different enjoyment, bonding with your baby and knowing he/she is fully dependant on you.
Hope that helps. Godbless.
2007-06-22 02:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when a baby sucks on your nipples 8-10 times a day it is nothing sexual.
Once you get past the cracked and painful nipples,it is pleasurable but not in that way.
I fed my boys until 12 months and loved it.
The convenience and the fact I was their mum and this is the only job in the world no one else can do for them!
I loved it good luck
2007-06-22 01:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by gym junkie mummy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that sexualy thing is going to go away. I was the same way. Youre not going to think about your breast that way b/c you'll be thinking about engorgement, and the pain that comes with breast feeding
2007-06-22 01:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle's Mum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not sexually stimulating when your baby nurses. I can't explain why it isn't; maybe something to do with maternal instincts. Good luck.
2007-06-22 03:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by starflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋