I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend and I had dry-sex in my swimming pool about two weeks ago. I had on a bathing suit but he didn't. I know he didn't *** but I'm worried about pre-***. We didn't have much chlorine in the pool at the time this happened. I know that pre-*** dosen't have much if any sperm in it, but I know it is possible to get pregnant from it if it comes into contact with my vulva. Two days ago I started ovulating; but I don't know if that is good or bad. For two weeks now my stomach has felt a little bit weird( I might just be imagining it). I have no one who I can bring me to the doctor, and my dad would kill me if I was pregnant. I'm a virgin and nothing like this has ever happened to me. I'm worried so much I can barely eat or sleep.
2007-06-21 17:56:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm pretty sure that I'm ovulating because of this "egg white" like discharge that I'm having. I've had it before.
2007-06-21 18:47:22 · update #1
if you are ovulation just a couple days ago your are probably fine. 2 weeks is to long for sperm to live. and there is the fact that it is precum that would have been outside of your clothes in a chlorinated pool even if it was just a little. don't stress you are probably just feeling sick because of being nervous. i real doubt it i wont say it isn't possible because anything is possible but i would be totally shocked if you were.
2007-06-21 18:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by fairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not. Probably just all in your head. Before I had my daughter, I would wonder if I was pregnant so much that I actually convinced myself that I was having all of these preg. symptoms. Your mind can play tricks on you and make your body do some crazy things. You also said that you're worried so much you can barely eat or sleep. That could also be what's making you feel that way. Stress, along with not eating and sleeping right could be causing the weird feeling your stomach has. Glad to hear you're still a virgin though. Good for you!
2007-06-21 18:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by ♥MandiiCakes♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you won't know until your next period. If you should be lucky and find out that you are NOT pregnant maybe you should reconsider the whole sex thing. If you are going to do it, be safe. Should you happen to get to know a guy and he does not want to wear a condom then he is not worth your time. It's you who will be pregnant and it should be you that decides when you are ready to be pregnant.
You are young and there are so many things that you have yet to experience. Live your life to the fullest and plan for a baby in the future...when the time is right and you know deep down inside that you can give that baby the best life possible!!
Best wishes!
2007-06-21 18:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by batgirl10478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO basically you were dry humping in the swimming pool but he did not enter you, you should be fine. The cholorine would have killed the sperm especially if he was not inside you. although there are going to be people who say "oh that happened to my friend and she has a baby" Just make your boyfriend go with you to get a pregnancy test. I'm sure you are just fine and are stressing yourself out.
2007-06-21 18:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, take a deep breath. it is possible that you could be pregnant. Now, as for the ovulation, it depends on your cycle, if you got it on the day you were supposed to have your cycle, then that is good! Have your boyfriend take you to a doctor to check. Now, I CAN NOT BELEIVE YOU DID NOT USE CONDOMS WHAT WERE YOU THINKING??? unprotected sex with no STD tests i presume, at 16!!!!!!!! Not only do you have a slight chance of being pregnant, you could have an STD. Go check with your doctor IMMEDIATELY.
2007-06-21 18:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill....pre-cumm is very unlikely for dry-sex and the chlorine kills is immediately. Also the feeling you are having are not at all related to pregnancy if you started ovulating 2 days ago. you'll be fine but be careful when the sex is not dry.
2007-06-21 18:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Brent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have started your period, then you have nothing to worry about. But you could go to the store and get a pregnancy test. Also, your local health department will give you the test and get you birth control without your parents having to know. I am just glad that my daughter felt comfortable enough to come to me and ask me to take her.
I have also had her friends ask me to help them with this matter.
If you can't talk to your dad, maybe you could talk to the mother of one of your friends.
Good Luck Sweetie!
I'll keep you in my prayers!
2007-06-21 18:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Laura H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, don't worry. When was your last menses? From the no. of days of your last menses, you should be able to tell whether you are pregnant. Another simpler way is to buy a pregnancy test kit to test after you have missed your menses for at least 1 day.
2007-06-21 18:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by pooh_bear1919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly why teenagers Should Not Have Sex!
If you ovulated two days ago but the "dry sex" was two weeks ago.... you are safe.
No Don't Do It Again! Wait until you are like uhm Married!!!!
2007-06-21 18:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.....sperm dies in 3 sec when it hits the air..... and in a pool i dont think it has the chance .....u have to have intercourse........stress can make ur period not come.....other things as well u should go get checked...you dont have to tell anyone...besides if u are a virgin u have nothing to worry about...but please be careful i had my 1st child at 17......its to much for a Young girl to handle..and you should enjoy life a lil....get birth control and condoms for when u do decide to have sex.....
2007-06-21 18:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by misty p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋