I am in lust with this Virgo man his birthday is September 22 1979. My birthday is September 8 1980. I really adore this man but, he doesn't feel the same way for me, that I feel for him. We have only had sex 2 times and we have been together 6 times. He waited a whole year until I wasn't married anymore for him to talk to me again. I am willing to do anything to keep this man in my life because it feels like heavenly bliss when we are together, Me being a adult I have never dated a Virgo do to the fact I know myself, so I was always scared. I told him how I really felt and he ran away from me. I need help in getting him back. Because we both write poetry I send him a poem maybe once out of the week he doesn't respond, he works a lot and long hours I think he has a girlfriend, I will myself in his dreams just to see him. I got it bad like Usher said, When I wake up, go to sleep, eat, drink, do anything all I see is him. Please help me and please don't say move on. I would if I could
2007-06-21 15:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by Lavender Diamond 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand what you are say, Virgo's can do that to you.
Good luck
2007-06-21 16:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's not what you want to hear, but why would you want to be with a person that doesn't want to be with you?
My fiance's birthday is 9/22 also, he can be a real ***!
Are you looking for a committed relationship? Or a buddy with benefits? I'm assuming that you want a commited companion, well obviously that's not what he wants. Don't groval at his feet, trust me my man's a virgo, not attractive on your part! If you write him a poem make it kinda mean cause he played you girl. Make it like your hurt but, screw him your over it! Sorry if this was all over the place but i hope you get my point! Trust me don't be dessperate and if it doesn't work than there was no chance to begin with and you were used and abused girl!
Much love!
2007-06-21 16:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does both of you being "Virgo" have to do with anything? If he has headed for greener grass then he really didn't want to be with you to begin with - were you still married the 6 times you saw each other and the 2 times you had sex? Is that what broke up your marriage? Sex isn't love. Love isn't sex. And now he has a GF are you going to break up that relationship? A true relationship is built on friendship - not LUST - friendship is the solid foundation for any long term relationship, and it grows into love a long lasting love. So get out of his dreams and start making your own with someone who deserves you.
2007-06-21 16:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Believe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do to make someone else love or care for you. All you can do is be yourself. If he already has a girlfriend....that doesn't sound good. Also, his not responding to your emails....another bad sign. If he was into you, he'd be writing back. The best thing you can do is to not obsess on one guy and keep your options open. If this guy doesn't work out, some other guy will.
2007-06-21 16:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Robert A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 07:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately you can not force someone to love you, maybe he is not ready to be in a relationship and to me he is not mature to be with you. at his age, he might still want to play the field and he probably saw that you were vulnerable and took advantage of you. so he had sex and maybe you were not that great that he is not crazy about you. so yeah, time to move on! The more you chase him , the more he will move away.
2007-06-21 16:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea im into the whole astrology thing.. its inevitable, you meet someone and right away you need to know the DOB.. I'm a virgo as well but go for a capricorn sweety.. capricorns and virgos go well,... earth signs... both are careful when it comes to the heart.. but anyways going back to the main thing here... sadly you just have to be the virgo you are.. and hope that he will reciprocate.....
2007-06-21 16:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by jena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has a girlfriend what do you expect him to do give her up for you,sense that isn't going to happen you have no choice but to move on .I no you don't want to hear that but it is what it is. You will get over him just like all of us had to do once or twice in our life.
2007-06-21 16:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seek professional help lady, and for the love of all things holy, get some self respect.
2007-06-21 16:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is very highschool astrology stuff.
2007-06-21 16:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋