i'm cheating on my husband with a married man. its been going on for 7 months. I think I love them both. the problem is the man I'm dating is my husband's sister Husband. what have I gotten myself into. if thats not enough I'm pregnant. SOS
2007-06-21 15:51:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!
Oh please, do people nowadays really not THINK before being stupid or is stupidity inherited?
2007-06-21 15:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to tell your sister's husband you are pregnant if you havent already. Then you need to sit down and talk over your options with him and determine where your future is headed - together or without him. If you two decide to stay together and raise this child, I suggest you tell your sister and your husband together...at least then you will have eachother for support. If you two decide to seperate, be very careful when you tell your husband and sister - for the sake of the baby inside of you. People can do crazy things when faced with life changing news....and yours is pretty dramatic. If you two stay together - get counseling.
I also suggest getting a paternity test after the kid is born to make sure the baby is truly his (your sisters husband). Good luck.
2007-06-21 23:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by theena 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh the tangled webs we weave!
Too bad you didn't' think of the consequences before you went through with all of this..
You cannot undo what you have already done and you won't be able to take the pain away when you are found out..
I would think deep and hard about this ..
I would deal with the baby issue first.. are you going to keep it? Get an abortion? Tell the father, if you know which it is..
Lots to think about here..
Everything bad you do in life comes back to haunt you some day.. You seem to be getting yours now..
I hope you do the right thing..
2007-06-21 23:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Rebel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A story like this is too good not to share. So why don't you apply for one of those daytime shows where people throw chairs at each other? Of course, your unsuspecting husband, his sister, and his brother-in-law/your lover should all be part of the fiesta. And we can do one of those DNA tests to figure out who baby's father is in part 2!!
2007-06-21 23:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spill the beans, otherwise when your baby is born, there could be a firestorm over paternity.
As for your sister's husband, that's pretty horrible of you.. I'm not gonna lie. You're bound for a tough task of telling everyone, but for the sake of the baby knowing who his/her parents are, and for the sake of being honest with your sister and your own husband, it's important to break it off with him and speak up - as incredibly hard as I can imagine that to be.
2007-06-21 22:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Supe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to tell your husband and his sister what is going on and hope for forgiveness.
2007-06-21 22:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're a phony, according to the other questions you asked, you 're also a sexually active 13-year-old and cheated on twin brother.
All you are is a m*ron.
2007-06-21 23:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by yogi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were old enough to do it so you are old enough to see what you did is very wrong and so do they, poor baby is the suffering one now it is blood testing telling family members and husband.
2007-06-21 22:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you messed up BIG time! it's gonna take a while for your husband to heal. You better start praying for forgiveness from your husband, sis in law, and God! tsk, tsk tsk
2007-06-21 23:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by Alex R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So your husband will be the baby's stepfather AND uncle? Wait... so you'll be the baby's mother AND aunt?
2007-06-21 23:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay wow, that's pretty bad. tell your husband and beg for forgivness! Honesty is always the best policy! good luck!
2007-06-21 22:55:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋