2007-06-21 14:50:58 · 38 answers · asked by Sydney Paws 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
its something very personal
i forgive easily but forgetting is a different thing, especially i got a scar to remind me of it.
2007-06-21 14:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yet another great question! There are many things I wish I could forget, but to forget about them would be to change my current perspective on my life, and I don't know if that would improve anything. I don't wish to forget anything. Having lived what I have makes me who I am, and keeps me pushing forward. If I could have something back though, it'd be my innocence. I'd forever be a child.
2007-06-21 15:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to forget him, dont think I could, but I wish I could leave him in the past.
2007-06-29 14:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by nease174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my first boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend's cousin?!
Well, that would be great to forget if I wasn't over it already!
No. what I really wish to forget is NOTHING!
There's nothing about the past that should be forgotten (at least that's my opinion), people learn more from their experiences than in school.
Even our most hurtful experiences teach us things! It's those experiences that bring us to where we are and to whom we are!
If someone was once cheated, that person learns that not everyone is trustful or faithful!
So, just live your day!
2007-06-29 12:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ticha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was this girl.......Her smile and laugh still mysteriously pop up in my memory....I sometimes wonder - what if -...the what ifs remain bitter sweat. I wish I could forget, and yet I am glad I have not. Losing her sweetened my heart and soul and has opened me to love in ways I never imagined. Funny how losing someone can do that to you.
-She died of cancer 2 years ago. I've been looking for someone to fill my heart, days and nights, since.
2007-06-21 17:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by X 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will always wish I could forget about hurting a loved one. I would never do it again. I don't know what I was thinking! this saying pops into my head- always think before you say and do anything you might later regret! Boy is that true- keep that in mind!!!
2007-06-29 08:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by trueteenngels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could leave all the bad things that were said and done to me in the past.
2007-06-29 12:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by corvette w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as i think everyone wishes they could forget certain things in their lives, i think the bad stuff that has happened in our lives is what makes us who we are today. Everything shapes who we are as people today and the people we will become. The good the badand the ugly...
2007-06-29 09:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Her ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure forget is the right word Syd. I think the word I'd use is accept.
Once I was able to accept, I could come to terms with it and put it behind me.
It still hurts at times, but I can face it, smile at it, and remember the good times too. :)
2007-06-21 16:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband and my bad marriage of 14 horrible years! I'm forgetting about it and moving on but people keep reminding me.
2007-06-29 08:02:21 · answer #10 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the pain and trauma of my last divorce.
*My 2nd (sorry ...).
*I put my heart and soul into this marriage.
*I had my whole identity as a family dude ripped away from me.
*My kids left me after 6 months to live with their mom.
**They never visited me, hated my guts, etc.
They're back with me, now, but I'm beginning to learn of all of the neglect they faced at their mom's hands (i.e., being farmed off to friends/relatives during weekends and holidays, while she hung out with her boyfriends, being left "home alone", exposed to a parade of "loser" boyfriends (many of whom spent the night, according to the kids ...)
I'm also dealing with their insecurities, hate, self esteem issues, etc. (my son's a wannabe gang member at the age of 12).
*While I'm glad to done with her, our anniversary was a few days ago (it would've been our 14th), I awoke in tears, with a Luther Vandross rendition of "A Song For You" (the older "Carpenters" standby ) playing in my head.
So yeah, if I'd never married her, I certainly wouldn't be dealing with this emotional baggage; but, then again, I wouldn't have had the absolute joy of having my kids, and another opportunity to make their lives happier, more stable, and making them the best that they can be.
Peace.
2007-06-21 16:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by chuck U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋