Ok so iv been wanting to get my girlfriend to get pregnant because i want to have a lil angel of my own...I think i would love everything about having my own baby.......
So the question is do I really want a baby or is it my human nature just keeping the life cycle going?
2007-06-21 14:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You didnt mention your age...or home life matters...you also didnt mention if SHE wanted to get pregnant...and have that lil Angel, also. Takes two to tango, ya know?
Youre not married, didnt mention your living arrangements or your work history...do you have a job? Your lil Angel needs two parents.
You will need :
A willing partner/wedding
A home
A job
A way to feed the baby
Insurance
Transportation
Health care....the list goes on and on
are you still ready for that Lil Angel?
2007-06-21 14:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by kajun 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get enough information from that, but it sounds to me you want a baby, it is also natural to think you just want to keep the life cycle going, but you should really have a baby! Although think of the responsibility.
2007-06-21 14:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought of giving life is thrilling. However most of us do have selfish reasons for wanting a baby in addition to the love of children and the desire to give life. It can range the narcissistic wanting of a "mini me" to the desire for someone to care for us in our old age.
The important thing is that one is ready to be a parent. This requires a willingness to sacrifice our own needs and desires for the good of our children; A willingness to devote at least the next 20 years to caring for and providing for someone else.
And yes the first step is a stable home for the 'Lil angel, where mommy and daddy are fully committed to one another in marriage.
2007-06-21 14:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age please! If under 20, you will give alot of stuff up (partying, hangin with friends, chasing girls), give it some thought though. Does your woman WANT to get pregnant also? Are you prepared for the commitment you will have to make?
Its a long hard road, don't do it, just to have a lil one running around. Do it because you are both ready, and willing to sacrifice all you know right now. They are fun, but alot of responsibility.
2007-06-21 14:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by MadbI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I hope your older than 18, yes I am 25 now but when I was 23 i had strong feelings of making a baby. you can't have any doubts. Cause you can't turn back, if you go through with it! I just got a puppy last week, less work than a baby, but its hard!! Trust me
2007-06-21 14:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rockchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, hello, they are the same thing. You want a baby, because it is part of the human need to reproduce.
2007-06-21 14:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Texas boy, i think u should get married first before trying to get ur girlfriend pregnant, and have you talked this over with her?
2007-06-21 14:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Married first.
2007-06-21 14:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest marrying her first. just because if you can deal with being married you would be better prepared for a child.
2007-06-21 14:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by emwads 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋