I'm with someone and he is a nice guy, but I'm into light bondage and submission/dominance, but he isn't... it's killing me inside that I can't expose him to that lifestyle, and it's killing me that I'm not quinching that side of me that needs a spanking and some mental bondage time after time, what should I do?
2007-06-21 13:29:07 · 3 answers · asked by trapped-dyme 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well there is so much content that I don't know where to start...it was someone else who exposed me to it, but I don't want to expose my guy to it and he runs away...
2007-06-21 14:17:51 · update #1
Some guys just won't spank a girl, no matter how much she wants him to, and it sounds like your b/f is one of them. And - as you well know - those needs and desires just don't go away.
So you've got a dilemma, and unfortunately it's one only you can resolve. Do you stay with him, and resign yourself to that side of your sexuality never being satisfied? Do you, with or without his knowledge, find someone else to play with on the side? Or do you break with him and find a guy who's happy to give you all you need?
Without knowing more about both of you, it's impossible to say one way or the other. But my guess is that you'll end up finding someone new. Good luck, whatever you decide.
2007-06-21 21:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you expose him to it?
Show him a Video on the subject,
and talk to him about it.
He might surprise you.
2007-06-21 21:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a like-minded guy.
2007-06-21 20:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋