why does he like watching porn if he is married?

Answer 1

You answered your own question. He likes porn BECAUSE he's married. All men desperately want variety. If they don't watch porn, they make it up in their head anyway. It's a great way to avoid the alternative, which is cheating with an actual live woman.

Answer 2

Ok first things first,

YOU really need to read a book called
His Needs, Her needs by Willard Harley jr.

In it it relates 5 basic needs men have and guess what. ( SEX) is usually in the top 5 for every man.

Men by our very nature are genetically programmed to respond to stimuli. if we see it we look. we always enjoy pretty women, and while you may want to call us Pigs, the truth is the truth and name calling won;t change it. If you don;t believe me watch spiders mate sometime. Even though the female spider is gonna killer the male. The male will still try to bang the female. That is why the female secretes certain hormones when there aroused. Those hormones trigger the responce in men, even if the man is married to another woman. Most men can control the sudden "Urge" but the drive is still there.

What have you done to catch his attention sexually? Ever bring one of his fantasies to life? Ever ask him why he enjoys porn?
While most men can control this urge, It's still fun to check out things on the net. We not with a Hooker, getting some STD, and we might actually learn something we would like to try with our spouce.

Instead of bring a "BI**H" about it why don;t you take a basic sexual education class and get some facts. after all as his wife. it's your job to communicate with him. now some anonymous group on yahoo. who know;s you might actually learn something interesting about your husband. =( and he might just be willing to give you the orgasm you never had.

Answer 3

Lots of guys watch porn, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you! As long as his watching it does not cause him to treat you with disrespect, and he doesn't ask you to try out some kind of wierd or deviant behaviour that makes you uncomforaible, I wouldn't make a big deal about it. Almost all guys have inherited the "porn-watching" gene; its on the Y chromasome right next to the "won't stop and ask directions" gene!

Remember; porn is to man as romance novel is to woman!

Answer 4

Most men do, its hard to understand and causes so many relationship bust ups. Basically i think they just watch other people having what looks like fantastic sex and wishes he could too. But real life ain't like that. It can be for a short time when we first meet, then we get all the pressures from what life throws at us and we cant always be bothered. He wishes you could, but come on, is he any where near up to the action these guys show us in the films either. Put the shoe on the other foot, things will change. If not, hand him the tissues.

Answer 5

Its not because hes not satisfied but cause hes married, im not saying that in a bad way. Now that hes married it would be wrong for him to go out and go to a strip bar and watch laddies take there clothes off, that will seem like hes cheating so he watches it at home so that way he knows that you know he watches porn and it makes him feel comfortable watching it knowing that his wife knows. So in other words, he wont feel as if hes cheating.

Answer 6

a lot of guys are gross. i think that porn shouldn't have a place in a marriage unless husband and wife watch it together. or if both people are ok with it. my hubby and i don't watch porn, but my ex liked porn because his brother did. it was kinda creepy. ask him to stop if it bothers you. or offer to watch it with him to see what you think of it. maybe it'll make your relationship stronger. i know people who are married that like to watch it together.

Answer 7

You already know the answer: because he likes looking at naked women (especially the ones he hasn't copulated with yet).
I don't know how you feel about evolution, but a lot of the research done in the area of psychological gender difference and, the reasons for them, seem to suggest an inate predisposition in men to act in this way.
Think about it this way: If you were trap on an island with a thousand men and you had sex with each one, at the end of the year there'd only be one pregnancy - essentially, you'd have been just as successful if you mated with only one subject. Now, if you're a man in the same situation with a thousand women, how many pregnancies would there be ... hard to calculate, eh?
From the world of anthropology it has also been noted that almost all hunter gather tribes have poliamoras cultures. Significant, when you factor in that they, actually, live in the default existance for the human spiecies.
Until, the invention of farming, around 7000 years ago - which eventually allowed us to develop technologies, complex hierachy and widely differing cultural practices - all humans lived in such communities. Women in the role of primary "nest protectors" and men as "hunters". Because of the high male mortallity rates, mostly due to hunting, there was always a large female to male ratio; add this to the fact that hunter gather women are always pregnant (lack of contraception) and, as such, need protection and help to survive in these dificult situations and ... well, you get the idea.
The boffins believe that this was how we lived for 90,000 years, or so, in natural groups of about 200 and that both the male and female brains are pattern to exsist around this type of structure. Within this model, women tended to make thier sexual preferences based on solid matters of survival in regards to themselves and their offspring, this meant attracting the best hunter who could be kept interested for a substantial period of time. Males tended to make, at least, their initial sexual decisions based on the attractiveness of the female, which rates very well with those who'd be the most reproductive - important to the male, as the more offspring he can have, the more influence over tribe; the more important his status in the tribe, the more likely his chance of becoming the alpha (who insidently has the biggest female attraction value).

Sure, we now live in the modern world where most of the above isn't a reallity for us, but the predispositions remain.
You've probably seen it's resedue on your own psyche: it isn't like you need a man to protect you, but you still feel good when they do and you wouldn't, ever, be with one that you believed couldn't.
It the same for him: his instincts tell him that he'd quite like to see other naked women for all the reasons above ... still, I get what you're saying, and "yes", he doesn't have to be a slave to his instincts.

Allan & Barbara Pease (married boffin types), have produced loads on the subject - even published a few books just on gender differences. Check it out:

http://www.reviewcentre.com/reviews6994.html

http://www.gender.org.uk/about/00_diffs.htm

Answer 8

what does watching porn have to do with being married?

Answer 9

Who doesn't like to watch porn??? Just cuz ur married doesnt mean u have to quit watchin porn......Loosen up!! He's a guy!!

Answer 10

The real question is why did you marry him if you don't like porn? You didn't know? Bad start to a relationship I would say.

Get into it with him. Men are visual creatures and if we have manwich every day we are gonna get bored. Let him look at the menu so he doesn't go to another restaurant.