I haven't had sex in 21 years.
I don't think that is very healthy.
I miss is tremendously.
I do not have any std's.
I am not gay.
I have no disfunctions.
I have no loss of stamina.
I just haven't had sex in 21 years and counting.
If someone doesn't have sex, male or female, is that dangerous? Couldn't a person die from lacking sex.
I think that i am going to die. I am honest about this. and I am deadly serious.
I just don't want to jump in bed with just 'anybody'.
I do not know what I should do.
Can someone give me advice? And I do not want stupid mindless answers. This is very serious to me. And i take it as such. No one should have to go around without sex for 21 years. The time has come, way over come, that i encounter in some nice pleasures.
Thank You for your responses. Each one will be gratified and honored as a good suggestion.
~Very unhappy and saddened.~
2007-06-21 13:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by b3cuz of iT 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
WOW please have sex it will do you some good!
2007-06-21 13:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Liquid Spear Waltz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow I am sorry you are going through this. The thing about not having sex that can be called harmful is how your body just builds up the need and having sex is such a release. Having sex is very healthful, it is stress releiving, it helps your emotional health, it is a good fitness activitiy, and it helps you sleep and feel more relaxed.
I don't think it should be hard for you to find someone and go out with them a few nights, they would be descent enough to save your life and if you don't really like them you could at least save yourself and then move on. They should be fien with it depending on what kind of guy they are.
Good luck, I hope you have safe, healthful, life saving sex.
2007-06-21 20:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Male16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop! you will not die from not having sex, (if it was to happen that way, there would be millions less males using the internet in the world)
Stop building it up to be a problem, the more you worry about it, the more of a problem it will seem. Everyone has gaps in their sex lives, its just some have bigger gaps than others.
To get arround the problem, you need to start dating, it may seem scary, but if you dont go out and meet anyone, there wont be anyone to have sex with you. Try a proper dating website or agency that covers where you live. There is someone out there that will be perfect for you, and more importantly they will want to have sex with you.
But be honest with them, dont try to make up stories about your past sex life, they'll be understanding with you if they know what the truth is.
2007-06-21 20:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by ed c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people have never had sex and lived into their 80s and 90s so let's get real.
Go to church and get involved in some of the works there and start meeting some people and try to find that special someone to spend your life with. That way you can marry and have the pleasures of sex with the one you love anytime you wish. That is, after all, God's plan :)
2007-06-21 20:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you won't die from lack of sex, nuns and such don't ever have sex..and they seem to live into old age. Maybe try a dating site and meet someone who sounds kind and interesting, maybe something can bloom from there.
Aaand until you can get into bed with that special someone treat yourself to some adult toys.
2007-06-21 20:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't die from lack of sex alone, but it seems like you're suffering some pretty serious depression from it. I would recommend that you talk to a counselor to examine this issue further, I think you've set up a huge emotional roadblock that prevents you from getting what you want.
2007-06-21 20:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Bwilkerson 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well then just go out to meet people. not just anybody but are you really looking for a deep relationship or just a girlfriend. either way meet people the time will come. you cannot die though! ⥠brie
2007-06-21 20:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i seem to have the same thing i mean i want to have sex but not with many of these girls these days
i dont really find myself attracted to girls or men for that matter
only person ive really ever cared to date was 1 girl who of course i no longer see anymore.. i really just think its a effect of 2007 and the amount of stds goin around might be evalution taking its place to try to reduce stds
2007-06-21 20:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A person cant die from lack of sex, but seeing that sex releases endorphins which reduce stress. it could be a contributing factor in lots of stress-related illnesses.
2007-06-21 20:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by ShAmRoCk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you are maybe sexual anorexic go to SLAA.com and you will find help there. and feel free to e-mail me and we can talk more about this problem. No I am not comming on to you just offering understanding friendship. If you e-mail me remind me of this question and my answer. That makes things easier to remember.
2007-06-21 20:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should go out and try to meet somebody at the bar, a coffee shop, or somewhere you like to go! if I was gonna die for sure I would be the pickiest person in the world,you know?!
2007-06-21 20:18:34 · answer #11 · answered by dani P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋