no desire for sex?

Question

I am going to be 50 years old in december. I have no desire for sex. When i get the urge i usally just let it go. I find women very attractive, especially a nice small set of breast. However i do not have a woman in my life. No i am not gay! It is i just dont have the normal urge. When i do date, The ladies i meet want to do it (Intercourse) alot. And that is just not me. Heck the last time i was in bed i couldn't get it up. She was fairly attractive and wasn't turned on i guess, even after going down on her for 3 hours.; So whats wrong with me.? I am getting so depressed that i am thinking of worse. If all you have is a stupid comment then do not reply because i will report you. I need answers, and i can not afford a doctor.. I do try to eat well and exercise but it is not always possible because i am a driver. average weight and normal size. also you can check out my profile and message me.

Answer 1

Hit the exorcise really hard. Try some heavy weight lifting (not above your limit, of course) This will get the testosterone pumping and just make you feel better in general.

Stay away from things that thin your blood. Like pain killers and alcohol.

And what she said... might even try some self serve when you have that urge.

Answer 2

Don't feel ashamed or embarassed. If you could afford a doctor, I would suggest Viagra, at least to try. Sometimes, too, you just get bored with it all when you get older. There are other things to do, too. Maybe you're psychologically tired of a society that thinks sex is everything, the epitome. I can certainly relate with that, if it is the case. In point of fact, there are plenty of reasons not to want to or feel the urge to have sexual intercourse. From a logical point of view, sex at your age makes little sense in a way-- if you were to procreate there is no guarantee you would naturally live long enough to raise your offspring. Basically, that is why so many men into and past their middle ages do not have such desire any longer-- their biology prohibits it. In fact, you do not sound like you want it that badly. My best advice: look for a woman that has little desire for it herself. Trust me, they exist. Tell her the truth of your situation and feelings and be open to other methods of recreation when the two of you desire a bit of fun. Enjoy your life in any way you can.

Answer 3

First off, there is nothing wrong with you!
People have different libido's at different times in their lives. Unfortunately, womens and mens do not coincide at the same age. I actually learned this in a health class....

Do you have insurance? If you do go to a doc. they always have answers.
If not or if you do not want to see a doc, look online for alternative medicines. There are always herbs out there that help. look into herbal remedies on the internet and if you are a little more adventuring get acupuncture - cheaper than a doc and they may also have herbal remedies.

And if you do not want to see anyone - have you explored your body and sexuality. Sometimes people like something different than the old missionary position. Try to find what you like by yourself and when you find a woman you like and trust let her know what you enjoy.

:)

Answer 4

if you know that you let the urge go, then why don't you try and keep it? this might sound weird, but maybe masturbation would help you to be able to "keep it up." don't feel like anything's wrong with you, i'm sure there are tons of men who are in the same boat. what you need to do is find a really nice girl who you can openly talk to with about all of this. maybe she could help you to overcome these feelings you have. (: good luck. (:

Answer 5

I am intrigued about how Nelson Rockefeller died. The official coroner’s report, issued by the competent New York State authority, states that Nelson Rockefeller died of a heart attack while he was having sexual intercourse. He was 71, and she was 27. Talk about reaching a climax.

Answer 6

GNC offers a multi-vitamin for men 50 and older. I heard that when taken consistently, you'll feel one hundred percent better. Best wishes to you.

Answer 7

heres unconventional help, porn magazines are a good help, nude pictures, etc. another unconventional help is viagra. well hope no one takes this as offensive, im just offering possible help.