two girls studying in the same class are very "close" friends and like each other and when have chance they make it out...are they "just" or "permanent" lesbians. i mean when they get seperated after school will they remain attached to other girls or become bi, or even sr8...?
2007-06-21 12:29:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Who knows... The time will show.
2007-06-21 19:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "one size fits all" manual for being bi or lesbian. Every persons experience is fairly different. Sometimes when people are questioning their sexual preference they feel the need to try it out and see if it's a match - sometimes they "stay that way" and sometimes they figure out it's not a match. Whichever -- it's important to LIVE your life then if you feel the need for a label see which one fits the best. Starting out by choosing a label then trying to stuff yourself (or anyone else) in the bucket is never going to work. Only they can tell you how they feel about the relationship and their sexual preferences. Have you tried asking them how they feel? It seems (in my experience) that younger (20 something) crowd of folks seem to feel freer to explore their sexuality without labels. Labels are food, clothes and junk in my attic. Not lives. Good Luck.
2007-06-21 19:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by FTM D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. They might be truly gay, or they might be "LUG"s (lesbians until graduation). Or maybe they are just doing it for attention like so many girls do.
There were several girls in my high school that "made out" with their hands over their mouths all the time, and slapped each other's butts and made lewd comments. They even "married" each other on facebook. But they were also the most homophobic girls you'd ever meet, and had a handful of boyfriends each.
So the girls in your class might be hobags like my classmates or they might be real lesbians. Dunno.
2007-06-21 19:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to tell. What happens is unique to each individual or couple. They might just be bi, or they might infact be lesbians but either way whatever happens is up them and what decisions each of the two take.
2007-06-21 19:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are college lesbians, meaning they eventually get married and have kids, and some are really gay. Who knows what will happen with them? Gender preference is about who you love, not who you have sex with. Lots of people experiment.
2007-06-21 19:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know them better than WE do!
What's the point, anyway? Are you thinking of asking one of them out?
2007-06-21 19:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will depend on the agreement the two have wat will happen after school.Like if they are dating or just testing the water..Communication/Understandment .....between the 2 .... is the key
2007-06-21 19:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by JustDeniece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its there own personal choice... life is a funny game... you never know whats next
2007-06-21 19:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Aditya K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask them yourself since you seem to think it's your personal business?
2007-06-21 19:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it will ware off when they start to wear caps.
2007-06-21 19:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by capa-de-monty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋