2007-06-21 09:47:08 · 25 answers · asked by abbs 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
depends how broadminded she is, can but try but if she doesnt, find someone who does, never ever ever deny who you are.......be proud..
2007-06-21 11:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by juejua 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question probably should be do you love your girlfriend or her clothes? If you love her (especially when she's dressed down, jeans and a tshirt), then the clothes are part of your fetish and yes, you are going to have to tell her if you want this to be a serious relationship. (I don't think saying "I love you, can I try on that red dress of yours is the way to do it though)
If you love the clothes, ask her where she shops, and come to the realization that you love her fashion sense, not her. She could turn out to be a great GF for you, for shopping, etc, but may not be interested in CD or making out with a CD.
Any adult relationship requires that you be honest in how you feel and also honest about things that are going to be vital, especially before things get to the serious point where marraige or children are involved. If she wants you, she may be open to a compromsie, but don't ever take her clothes without her permission, although she can take whatever she wants of yours whenever, it's in the rules.
2007-06-21 16:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is evidence that 1 out of 10 men crossdress. Many heterosexual men, particularly well to do men enjoy wearing women's clothing. You are not alone and what you are doing is not wrong. It may be hard to share this with your girlfriend, but many women accept men who do this. He still loves you, there's just some inexplicable reason that he feels compelled to dress as a female. Some researchers say it is because men in our society have to shut off their feminine side and seek some way to connect with it. Do some research and you'll find you're far from alone.
2007-06-21 16:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by kleines 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what sort of relationship you intend to have with her. If you are going to marry her or have long term relationship then you should tell her about this very important part of your sexuality. If you don't you will spend the rest of you time with her living a lie. You would be surprised how many women accept ( not except by the way) the idea of a man wearing female clothes
2007-06-21 17:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "accept", not "except".
"Except" means to take out, get rid of, so I'm sure that can't be what you meant.
Who knows if she will accept you, you know her best. If she doesn't, you can always find a new girlfriend who does.
But be upfront with girls about this first before getting involved with them. This will prevent your wasting time with those who wouldn't accept you as you are. No sense in wasting time with those, find one who WILL accept you from the beginning.
In fact, find a crossdressing support group and generally you can find a girlfriend by someone who knows someone, etc. who will accept you and love you, through that community.
2007-06-21 16:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that really a fair question ? How does anyone know if you will be accepted or not. There is only one way you can find out and that is by bringing the subject about CD's up with her and see what she says. Other than that what can anyone say. Afraid you are on your own with this one. But please let us know what happens. Good luck babe and all my best wishes.
2007-06-21 17:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she probably won't... but at least you would be honest with her... To tell you the truth for any girl to hear that from her boyfriend would probably be shocking but you should do what you like and what makes you happy... plus if she loves she should support your decisions and feelings... but that in no way means she'll stay your girlfriend...
2007-06-21 16:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gee Gee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In any event, even if she dumps you as a boyfriend, think of the shopping possiblities and fashion advice this could open up for you....provided of course she doesn't brain you for wearing her clothes without her permission.
2007-06-21 18:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Telemachus R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your gf doesn't except you, that's her problem adn she's not much of a good girlfriend. Tell her the truth, adn if you don't, when she finds out, (she'll have to find out sometime, unless u dump her) she'll just be madder. Tell her the truth adn be honest. Or, just buy the same clothes for yourself. But please, TELL THE TRUTH!
2007-06-21 16:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you want to share this with HER.
Or do you just want to share it with SOMEONE?
Will she ACCEPT your taste in gendered clothing?
If she's a cool chick, she will... If she's a vanilla-nut-sponge-bob-Square- pants, then she wont...
You know her better than me... which is she?
I would personally kinda like to date a guy who enjoyed wearing feminine clothing... lol... So i'm sure other women out there would too :)
If you current GF isnt one of us enlightened chicks, then you WILL find someone else who is ;)
2007-06-21 16:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by The cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be true to yourself. You need to tell her, if she doesn't except you, then she is not the right person for you. Don't live a lie, or sneak around, that's cheating yourself. Don't be ashamed of who you are, as long if its not illegal. You don't want her to catch you, and feel deceived. She may be hurt and shocked when you tell her, but she will probably respect your courage and in the end except you decisions. if she doesn't want to continue to date you, then respect her decision. You need to be honest to yourself and to her. just sit her down and tell her.
2007-06-21 16:53:52 · answer #11 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋