I am a single parent of two. I have a 6yr old son and a 2yr old daughter.
2007-06-21 08:49:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a real, sincere person accepts the whole package. my son is biracial and i remarried back into my own race and he accepts and loves my son, and claims him as his even though they are obviously not related. he says all the time, i real man steps up.he has a child from a previous relationship, and the mother is real trash, but i stepped up and love this child, its not his fault
2007-06-21 08:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know each case is different, as each kid is different. But, overall, I wouldn't marry again and have a "blended" family. Oldest step-son is a hellian, and he's been banned from my home because I don't want his foolishness rubbing off on my son, that i've tried to raise right. Then, in addition to that, there's always the battle of the X's, the parents. That's really fun to get in between, and all the money struggles, custody battles, etc. Why jump in a pit of snakes if you have to?
Sounds ugly, but that's just the cold hard facts....
2007-06-21 09:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a single parent as well, and I would prefer to deal with ppl, especially if I am dating, that have children, I have found alot of times that ppl whom I have dated that don't have children have a hard time dealing with that, for example they ask you to go out and you tell them you can't because your child is sick.....sometimes those ppl don't understand and take it as a rejection instead of a rain check. I am not saying all ppl are like that, but I find that ppl who already have children seem to understand a bit more.
2007-06-21 09:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a divorced mom with a 2 & 7 yr old when I met my husband. We now have a third child. You will meet someone that is great for all of you.
2007-06-21 08:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by deal with? Date? It depends...it wouldn't automatically make me run, but there are alot of things to consider...I would NOT be involved with a person with a psycho ex...I'm sorry people gp through that, but that's something I'm just not up for.
2007-06-21 08:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a single dad......I dated a single man without children......ohmg......it was horrible......He had no clue as to how children should be treated......my two boys 10 & 7 hated him......I married a single dad and my boys LOVE Him.....they call him dad......He hangs their moon......
2007-06-21 08:56:27 · answer #6 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have decided that i am not dating men who do not have children anymore. I have had to deal with so much crap and i am tired.
2007-06-21 08:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my bf has 3 kids and a ex from hell.. still i am not going anywhere. and i have 2 kids..i always thought my ex was horrible.. but hell after meeting her i would rather have mine than his..
2007-06-21 09:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "heavenlyhotchild" said.
2007-06-21 08:56:06 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what heavenlyhotchild said.
2007-06-21 08:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋