2007-06-21 08:44:37 · 22 answers · asked by galen_2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you would'nt have declined the baby maybe she will be an excellent wife and mother and you will be happy with her. YOu hurt her and also hurted her family values . Now accept hte consequences of you dont wanting your baby. It is all your fault
2007-06-21 08:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gila 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You neeed to talk with her. She knows now that you don't want to have a baby with her so she wants a man who will how you say "donate to her cause". Sit down and explain why you don't want to have a baby right now. To give up a child (whether it is by abortion, miscarriage, or adoption) it puts a strain on the woman. It sounds like now that she's experienced pregnancy and has had to sit and think about having a baby, she now wants one. She maybe feeling guilty for the loss.Talk with her patiently, calmly, and try to understand where she is coming from. This is only if you love her and want to make things work. Good luck to you both, and remember don't be quick to judge. People behave the way they do for a reason, find her reasoning.
2007-06-21 15:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by maev 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
End the relationship, the two of you aren't compatible and don't want the same things. It's simple.
2007-06-21 15:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lane 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sad to say this, but a relationship only works when you both have the same VALUES... talk to her, let her know what you expect, find out what she wants, then decide what to do that preserves your self-esteem.. do not 'settle' for someone who does not want to make you happy..
2007-06-21 15:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about her, if the kid your have a blood test and then if it is your fight for your kid in court don't leave your child be a real men and take care of him
2007-06-21 15:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by vipermen21 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well you should leave her because she shouldnt be doing that just because you declined a baby. best of luck.
2007-06-21 15:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You guys don't want the same thing in life, move on.
2007-06-21 15:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's obviously trying to hurt you. any adult who handles her/himself like a child should be treated as such. "punish" her by kicking her to the curb, and give her the silent treatment. she's not worth the breath.
2007-06-21 15:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by tvelez128 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds likes she is EVERYONE'S girl friend. Get tested for STD and drop her.
2007-06-21 15:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
she sounds like she is selling it. leave her now. get a blood test and get full rights if you are the dad. she is something else.
2007-06-21 15:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ida 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋