i slit my wrists?

Question

i slit my wrists on Saturday night and its addicting
anyways -my so called friend told some of her mates and then yesterday she 'slit hers' but i peeled her plasters off and there wasnt a mark i mean i didnt wear plasters anyways-why did she copy me?

oh and by the way i did it with a compass

Answer 1

You should really try to find the underlying problem chicken.. This is a very serious matter which will only end in disaster.
Talk to someone you trust..
And keep talking. - Your not alone

Answer 2

i think, it not help you need darlin you need to get away the the countryside, take a break (dont run away it does NOT help trust me, if u live in england call childline, u proberbly do live in the uk cos it would be sunday in the usa and saturday in the uk and also u mentioned plasters, and that is a pritty english thing to say lol).

so anyway take a break wiv ur mum and dad or a familiy member and if you think they dont know confront them, its hard i know, but ur mum or dad already knows,
trust me he/she does know no matter how hard u try en hide it, they r ur parents they find out sooner or l8er.

dont listen to the ova people who think ur scitzo ur not trust me, ur not attention seekin, u feel alone and u dont wana be u, and this, what ur doing is a cry for help, theres a big difference between those two words.

i bet ur about 13 or 14/15 same age as i was when i started im jst turnin 17 this week and those scars i'v got all ova my arms are still there and yes they are very visable to other people.
im not a emo or part of any teenage culture i class myself as an young adult now and yes when i stopped cuttin life hit me so hard i wish i was nver born,

but it wasnt my mum or her biofriend or my older sis left to pick up the damage that i did to myself and all the people i hurt and lost (includin friends) ,durin all of my selfish acts it was me that had to pick up all the pieces.

and oo my god i no i keep sayin its hard but u think that u havnt got the emotional or physical strength to deal wiv all the after mass but u no wot, its that part that keeps you goin , and yes cuttin , is addictive but the only thing is, i hav autism so i didnt feel pain in the bottom half of my arms or hands so its a bit harder.LOL
i think realities has hit u now and especially wiv all these post to your qeustion .

what ur friend is doin, is she starting to copy u it may start off wiv no marks and jst the plasters but she will start experiementing wiv self harm and all the un natural pain thats goes wiv it. stop now , i thiink u need to start a confidence or a self managment course, take up kick boxing instead of self harm.

if u wana talk more just add me on ur yahoo thingy. i hope this helps. lov soph xx

Answer 3

y she copied u is not the q..... y either of u did it is.
k, so u thought it woul b addictive & cases have proven that is y some ppl do this, but there is always a bigger problem underlying the need for it in the first place.
If u r having a hard time of it just now try talking to someone.
If u feel u cant do that u could always try posting qs about how u r feeling on here, or try writing about it on a blog.
Try anything as a way of easing the tensions within yourself that caused u to feel the need to carry out this self mutilation.

Answer 4

You're an attention seeking idiot girlie. Life is precious so bloo.dy respect it and stop trying to get one upmanship on slitting your wrists. If you want to kill yourself for real then you would have no problem in succeeding as it is a very easy thing to do. Grow up you stu.pid pathetic child - maybe your mate was taking the p.iss because you are such a tw.at. Try getting positive attention by doing something worthwhile and if you can't do that then go off and do a better job of it.

Answer 5

Hi, my heart goes out to you. I have self harmed for 11 years and I know what you mean about it being addictive cos I do it when I am stressed etc and seeing the blood makes me feel alive. But please go to your doctor, don't leave it like I have done. I have scars all over my arm and can't wear nice short sleeved tops anymore. You don't want to live like that, with everyone talking and laughing behind your back, believe me.
As for your friend, I am guessing she did this cos she doesn't understand or doesn't know how to handle it. I say you should confront her and ask her. Tell her that aint gonna help your problem!Please get an appointment asap and get this sorted now. Best of luck to you sweetie.

Answer 6

I think you have bigger things than someone copying you to worry about. It may seem addictive now but when you mature a little you will see that the after math is not attractive. It's apparent that you are craving attention since most people who are afflicted by this try their best to keep it a secret. I feel that you are angry with your friend because you wanted her to feel concern but she also craves attention and kinda stole your thunder. I'm not judging you I just feel you may need to talk to someone instead letting these problems persist.

Answer 7

OK. SO YOU'VE FOUND SOMETHING THATS MAYBE SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT FROM THE USUAL BORING GROWN UP THING, LIKE SMOKING CUZ ITS GROWN UP OR DRINKING CUZ IT MAKES YOU LOOK GOOD, IT PROBABLY MADE YOU FEEL PRETTY GOOD TOO EH? AND WHAT ABOUT THE SCARS? DO THEY LOOK GOOD? WELL MAYBE IF YOU LOOK AT YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS' SO CALLED SCARS I THINK ALL OF US WOULD AGREE THAT HERS LOOK BETTER THAN YOURS. AND THE PLASTERS? WELL WHY NOT? IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE YOU'RE A YOUNG ADULT TRYING TO FIT IN WITH ALL THIS ADULT STUFF. BUT MAYBE YOUR'E NOT QUITE READY? YOU KNOW THERE'S NO HARM IN JUST GOING WITH THE FLOW. DO YOU NEED TO TALK? HAVE YOU PERSONAL ISSUES THAT YOU FEEL YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH ON YOUR OWN? IS LIFE GETTING YOU DOWN? IF THE ANSWER IS YES, THEN I'M AFRAID THAT YOU HAVE AN ADULT COMPLAINT CALLED "DEPRESSION" MY LOVE. THIS NEEDS SORTING AS QUICKLY AS POSIBLE. HAVE YOUR PARENTS/GUARDIAN NOT NOTICED, I MEAN YEA YOUV'E COVERED THEM UP, BUT WHAT ABOUT THE BLOOD? IF YOU FEEL THAT LIFE IS JUST FINE AND DANDY, THEN YOU HAVE WHAT IS CALLED "CHILDISH ATTENTION SEEKING". IF THIS IS SO, THEN I'M SORRY I'M NOT IMPRESSED. THERE ARE TOO MANY PEOPLE DYING IN THIS WORLD FROM HUNGER, DEPRAVATION AND WAR. WHAT MAKES YOU THINK YOU COULD EVER LINE UP WITH THEM?
PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE. ANYONE. EVEN IF IT'S ON HERE. BUT IF YOU WANT AN ADULT CHAT, THEN YOU NEED TO LOSE THAT CHILDISH STREAK TO GET ANYWHERE. IF WE CAN'T HELP YOU, THEN IT BECOMES A JOB FOR A PROFESSIONAL. GOOD LUCK SWEETHEART. X

Answer 8

Hi there...

I recently left Miami during film production and i came back and found out that my freinds best freind freind had commited suicide... now when i went to the funeral to comfort my girl freind who went i saw the faces on all the families related and also the boyfreind that she had left behind... now this was not due to sliting her wrists this was somthing more subbtle but to see what the familys were going through was horrible.. im sure you wouldnt like your freinds and familes greiving over you like that would you.... just think abotu what you want.. talk to someone or to more mature adult

Answer 9

girl, get some therapy . you have said some pretty messed up things. last week you were a lesbian, then you fancied a boy. mow you've slit your wrists. to be quite frank you need proper friends or a relationship with your parents. i think you are attention seeking. and you need to nip it in the bud before you grow up and take all that into adulthood.

Answer 10

Winnie your friend DID NOT copy you she just said she did to gain some attention the same you got attention when you did this self harm to yourself. Also she did it to be "part of the crowd" it is not be taken lightly.

Winnie why are you self harming yourself what is it about yourself or your life you do not like my friend?

I realise that there are trends and this is one Winnie you have to stop right now.
When you self harm yourself at first it gives you a sense of relief that what every you feel is wrong with yourself is put right by giving yourself pain. It them becomes a nasty cycle difficult to get out of and before you know it you will find yourself in hospital.
Winnie your scars are not badges of honer they are badges of self distruct and a way down a very rocky road.
Please go and get yourself some help go to your doctor show him what you have done and he will take it from there please.

Answer 11

I mite not know what goes on in your head.. I mean the reasons why you did what you did.. but I can understand why people go and do that... I used to cut myself alot , but stopped.. my friends helped me alot.

Personally speaking from what your so-called friend has done.. she doesnt look like she is helping you at all. I can only guess why she did that, maybe she wanted people to feel sorry for her.

I do hope that you try and talk things out with sumone who really cares about and maybe like for me..you too will find it helps and hopefully it will stop you from doing it.

Wish you all the best... :)