We are going to pride in Seattle this weekend and want to take my partner's little brothers, they are 7 year old twins. They recognize our relationship and dont really think about it much because she is their sister and they just accept whatever she says. Pride is always somewhat family oriented, and people bring kids all the time. The parade is televised so they are very strict in enforcing clothing and conduct rules.
What pro's and con's do you see to taking children to a pride celebration? I feel like at this point they may ask some questions for sure, but i'd rather them be curious now than not be exposed to it and turn out to be homophobic and vile 10 years down the road....
2007-06-21 04:04:20 · 12 answers · asked by marcyp06 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no alchol alowed in the main area where the pride celebration is.
2007-06-21 04:10:53 · update #1
So long as it is OK with their parents, take them! We took our kids all the time. They went to softball games with us, pool parties, and pride. They have been exposed to so many different types of people/cultures etc they are very open minded loving young men.
And for all you paranoids out there... they are as STRAIGHT as can be. The oldest is married with 3 kids now, the next is dating women only. The youngest is only 10 and goes everywhere with us. He is completely comfortable and confident around all kinds of people. They all are.
I think it was a GREAT experience for them to see and learn for themselves, that folks are folks. No matter race, religion, sexual preference, or gender choice. People are people.
GO FOR IT!
2007-06-21 04:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take my kids to pride every year! In Phoenix the festival has things set up for the kids and they love the dancing and the food. I would recommend leaving early with them though...things can get rowdy later in the day. I know at our festival you can get a stamp when you leave so the kids can go home and you can go back and have grown up time. I also think that if Seattle has a website,check it out. They probably will tell you what there is going to be there for the kids and families.
2007-06-21 11:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jellicle Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One positive things that kids get out of going to pride, is they get to experience another culture. They get to learn that gay and lesbians are no different then straight people. It will open up their eyes and minds to learn something new. Hopefully it will promote less hate towards our community. Although, on the other hand, there can be negativity out of taking children to pride fest. If it is appropriate to take children to pride, then do so. I see nothing wrong with it, just as long as everyone is having a fun and safe time!
2007-06-21 11:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by staroftheuniverses21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a great question, you get a star! I believe it is best for children to be exposed to the real world from day one. There is nothing wrong with taking them to a pride festival, they will have a stronger understanding of people and the world we live in.
2007-06-21 12:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by mslorikaraoke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a two mommy household with an 8 y.o boy....we decided to not bring him. It isn't so much how we act or what we would be doing but what the younger or kid less crowd will be doing. We went to ours....compared photos with our friend who is way younger....they were all trashed, barely clothed and just out and out not the kind of examples we want our son to see. And they have the right to celebrate how they wish...we decided to make it an adult day!
2007-06-21 11:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lil_bit_witty 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea. I can see where you would get nervous. If they understand your relationship,then I think it is up to them. Why don't you sit down and ask them..explain what it is and ask if they would like to go. Also...what does their mother think? I do not take my niece and nephew b/c their father is a homophobic butthole and I respect his wishes in that and only that aspect. My little sister and brother (dad's second marriage) are cool with it and so are their parents, so I would be happy to take them. Just a thought..good luck and enjoy!!!!!!
2007-06-21 11:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by myview 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything would go wrong by taking them, but they would probably get more out of the experience if you waited until they were a little older, probably about 10-12
2007-06-21 11:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure it sounds like a great experience for them. They will see people who care about each other, and be able to fight off false hateful ideas
2007-06-21 11:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a great idea, and it will show them open-minded values and tolerance (instead of the usual prejudice). Have a wonderful time!
2007-06-21 11:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by SB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dislike children going to Pride, or any event where there is alcohol served in abundance.
2007-06-21 11:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋