Should a married women go out to a club / bar without her husband?

Question

If a married woman says she wants just a girls night out at a club, is that all right?

Answer 1

Why wouldn't it be? When she got married it did not mean she had to give up her friends. And sometimes girls need a night out with their friends. Guys do it all the time

Answer 2

I see no real problem with having a night out with the girls. If there are no issues of trust in a relationship than why not have a bit of fun apart. My guy and I each take one night each month to go out with out friends to the club. we have been together for three years and it has always been a part of our relationship.

Like I like to say. She/He can look at the buffet all night long because I know she/he is coming home to eat.

Answer 3

No it's not. That's how my wife started going to the club. She was going and turns out that her friends husbands were going. Well guess what the reason she didn't want me to go was she was seeing one of thems husbands behind my and his wife's back. Anyway, I don't think clubs are a place for a married person to be unless they are with the spouse. It's just asking for trouble.

Answer 4

Call me old fashioned, but no.

If it's a bachelorette party, then I think there should be an exception.

My husband was married before and his ex always wanted to go out for a girls night out at the club. She was going to see another man.

There are alternatives. She could go out for dinner and drinks, without having to go to a club. A club is really ment for couples or singles hoping to hook up with other singles.

I guess it comes down to how much trust you have in the relationship.

Answer 5

Yes, it's fine. Just as a man should be able to go out for the occasional boys night with his friends. It IS entirely possible to go to a club or bar, drink, have fun with friends and do absolutely nothing wrong at all. It's even possible to go and not dance with anyone. If you trust one another, there's not a problem.

Answer 6

It really all depends on the woman. If I did it, my husband would be fine with it, because he knows it would be exactly that - girls only, nothing funny about it. But I know plenty of other married women whose husbands would say "no way", and I know why. I guess the bottom line there is they married women they can't trust. Again, if you can't trust the spouse, maybe you should have thought about it before walking down the aisle.

Answer 7

Agreed with the "Tit for Tat" answers- Are you doing the same?

If not just make sure this doesn't happen very often, or you should be concerned.

Girls night outs don't need to be "Clubbin" as that has a certain risque connotation. Out for drinks after work with her gang is a lot less worrisome.

Speak with her about your being uncomfortable with this, but don't get all ultimatum on her unless it is real clubbin and you aren't granted the same privelige.

Old Guy

Answer 8

No, most bars are for people looking for another, are the other girls single or married ? Single ? get good married friends, married ? you are being influenced by them, need new friends.
Girls night out needs to be where there are not a bunch of guys hunting for women.

Answer 9

I don't think a woman or man needs to be in a bar scene without the other present. That is just my thoughts. It will cause problems. A girls night out? Go to the cafe then or sewing class or ceramic class then, why a bar? just don't go. Less issues.

Answer 10

Nothing wrong with a girl's night out. Altho....if you go to a pick-up joint....think how *you* might feel if your husband went some place like that without you.

In other words, some venues might be more appropriate than others. Use discretion, and don't use your 'need' for a girl's night out to justify *everything*.