My boyfriend of three weeks likes me to perform oral sex on him when his buddies are around because he likes them to watch, but the other day when my bf wasn't home from work yet one of his buddies showed up and wanted me to do give him some head. I refused. When my bf walked in I took him in the kitchen and told him what had happened, and he said I should've done it cuz not doing it was a form of disrespect.
2007-06-21 03:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, his friend was being very disrespectful to both you and him for even asking you to pimp yourself like that and your boyfriend should have been outraged that his would even have the audacity to show up while your boyfriend was not home and ask you to do something like that. Also why allow your boyfriend to have his pals over to watch, if he really loved you then he would want to keep it private and you should too. My advice dump him you are way too good for scuzz like him.
Take pride in yourself.
2007-06-21 03:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you have a right to choose what you do sexually. That's like a man who rapes a woman telling her that saying "no" is a form of disrespect. Also, if you are not comfortable giving oral sex to your bf with others watching DON'T do it.
2007-06-21 03:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by kc_6201 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please dump him now.
First off, unless he really likes people watching him, having you give him head in front of his friends is just a way off showing off. To say he can get you to do whatever.
Secondly, for him to say it's disrespectful to turn down his friend is just ridiculous. Sounds like he just wants you to be his personal whore and you deserve far better than that.
2007-06-21 04:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound cosher, if you want to get in with these users that ok, you could stick around for a while for expierience or whatever but i wouldnt saty with him long he will be bad for you in the long term
2007-06-21 03:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
pride...
is this wat a bf shud treat another? umm... how bout tell ur bf, there is one of ur fren want to use his as* hol for a quikie?
u shudn't hv put on the show either... this is not the way a relationship shud b... a relationship shud hv respect, tolerance, and accepting each another...
2007-06-21 03:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kordal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy isn't serious about a relationship. The sooner you are out of it, the better it will be for you.
2007-06-21 03:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this pig now and stay away from ALL his friends-you're being used and abused right now.
2007-06-21 03:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maria b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up on him he is using you
2007-06-21 07:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by kanei 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have personal rules, do not let your boyfriend change your rules. if you are comfortable and wish to change your personal rules, that is fine, it is your business
2007-06-21 03:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I smell a big fat liar!
2007-06-21 03:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋