Last year my ex-boyfriend left me without saying,then I found out he went back to mexico.He left me on June 9th 2006.And recently my boyfriend passed away on June 9th 2007.Is this a conincidence or is June 9th a bad year for me?I'm starting to wonder what next June is going to give me.Can someone please help me,yes I'am in mourning for the death of my boyfriend.Can someone also tell me how to handle a nervous break down,I was going crazy yesterday bec'cuz of my boyfriend's death,I'am already seeing a counslor.
2007-06-21 01:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You poor thing, I am sorry to hear about your June 9th incidents. Anyway, glad you're seeing a counselor. Very good for you. In trying to understand tragedies in life our mind will reach and grab for anything to make sense of it all. When things happen to this degree of coincidence, the mind will undoubtedly decide that June 9th is the "bad day" in order to alleviate some of the pain and put the brain at ease about the other 364 days of the year. I think its absolutely horrible coincidence, sweetie. Take good care of yourself, stay with your counselling and time will help ease some pain.
2007-06-21 01:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Seven Signs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in GOD, then, you must be knowing that each and every thing which happence in the world is from HIM. If human beings start thinking in your way how you are thinking after the death of your friend, then, life becomes HELL. If you leave up to GOD for every thing which happence to us, then, mentally you will be relieved and will lead the normal and cool life. Any one will feel bad for the incident which occurred with you.
IT IS JUST A COINCIDENCE AND NOTHING MORE THAN THAT.
Please lead a normal life as you were leading one complete year without him.
If you are a male then go to a male friend and if you are a female then go to a good female friend and express all your sorrows at once. Your mental health condition will drastically improve.
Life is such a nicely arranged cycle in which souls come and go.
2007-06-21 01:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this helps at all, I don't believe in bad luck. There are coincidences in life, to be sure...and thats what I think you have experienced. We create our own luck in life - both good and bad. But your life, right now, has nothing to do with luck...and I would suggest you ignore the whole June 9th thing, as it has no bearing on your life or your grief. If you go looking for problems, you will find them. So please, put it out of your mind.
As for your grief...don't assume it is a nervous breakdown. Grief is an overwhelming emotion...and trying to fight it or rationalize it will only make it more difficult. Let yourself feel your emptiness and sadness right now. But don't let it consume you - and don't feel guilty if you find yourself smiling or laughing sometime in the near future. This life is for the living - and you are still alive. You do no good for yourself or to the memory of your boyfriend if you allow yourself to emotionally die...
2007-06-21 01:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem strange but I think it was coincidence. Losing someone that close to you is devastating, I know. Take time to grieve and let out all of your emotions. Write in a journal when you have so much on your mind that it is overwhelming. It really helps to write it down and get it out of your head and off your mind. It's good that you are in counseling, that will be a great help in sorting out your feelings. This pain of your loss will never go away completely, but it will become bearable and gets better with time. Take care and I wish you all the best.
2007-06-21 03:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that seeing a counsler is the best thing to do for now so good job on that. As for June 9th being a cursed day for you I don't think so I think it is more coincidence that one went running away while the other died.
2007-06-21 01:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by bluenile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just coincidence. Don't worry every thing will be good for you in future. Whatever bad is already passed away.
2007-06-21 01:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by DATTA T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a coincidence, dont look into it anymore, your doctor will be able to prescribe you with some medication to help you
2007-06-21 01:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha no way. every time i play rummy, i'm getting 666 and my buddy matt, while he grow to be taking the plane to florida his flight grow to be 666. he had to call us while he grow to be interior the air b.c he grow to be so scared lol
2016-10-02 21:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww i feel so sad for you but i do think its a coincedence twice, but if somthing happens next year then it is bad luck xxxx
2007-06-21 01:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT BAD LUCK, IT IS A COINCIDENCE,BUT REMEMBER THAT A COINCIDENCE IS SOMETHING WE CANNOT EXPLAIN.
2007-06-24 21:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by jammal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋