my x broke up with me three weeks ago, not long after that i had a misccariage. he didnt know i was pregnant, it crossed my mind but life was a bit stressful so i put it to the back of my mind. he is in hospital, had an accident, which is hard for me cause he refuses to acknowledge me, do i tell him i had a misscarraige? dont know wot to do , im so confused.
2007-06-21 00:07:27 · 16 answers · asked by marypop100 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
he text me to say he is going home n will see me some time n im not to worry, wot does that mean?
2007-06-23 00:50:34 · update #1
Considering that he's not acknowledging you, I don't think he would give you the support that you need. Telling him at this point might just make you feel worse. Perhaps you should wait until you both are in a better place in your lives.
2007-06-21 01:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by egking_mph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't tell him, he didn't know, it won't do any good to tell him, also if he has had an accident i think that he has enough problems without being told that he was almost a dad aswell, and the tormant of seeing his ex gilfriend, who by the sound of it he won't want to see.
Also i hope that you are okay, as a miscarriage can be an extremenly upsetting experience.
All the best
Kayleigh.
2007-06-21 07:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. This really is a tough time for you. Do something to let him know that you care....send flowers..maybe a card even. Do not tell him about the miscarriage. Let him get well and then go from there. In the meantime take care of YOU.....ok? My heart just goes out to you...
2007-06-21 07:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Chaz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes U need to tell him as soon as he is up to it. How he reacts is his problem,not yours. You do not want him to think or say U are deceitful. It was his child too and he need to know the loss and be there for U as U must be there for him.
2007-06-21 07:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Charla C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard one
I suggest you get some help from above for directions on telling or not telling about the miscarrage of a precious baby, and find a new way to true love=
Live with self esteem even when you are engaged to be married in true love for life, and be the type that is about a diamond ring.
we reap what we sow. its good in the blessed light.
in amazing grace that saved me=John 3 repented of my sins, and let Jesus in my heart to be my savior and best friend. He promised "I love you and knock on your heart door to come in when you repent (even of one lie) do it quickly, Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you let me in I will be your friend." Revelation 3:19&20
so I prayed to be helped too = "Jesus thanks that you love me, I am sorry for my sins so help me do better, come into my heart and be my friend, amen."
this changed my life wonderfully and gave me inner peace in the midst of storms and now I have Jesus the good shepherd to guide my life happily each day Psalm 23 & John 10 in the more abundant life!
prayin for you too the best, David
2007-06-21 07:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
why bring this up when he is hospitalized and already burden with medical problems. Wait til he gets out then sit down and discuss it like adults
2007-06-21 07:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by yahoo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when he's not at 100% health?!?!? No way.
Since he's an ex, that refuses to acknowledge you, I wouldn't bother telling him.
2007-06-21 07:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not with him or having sex with him anymore, therefore he doesn't need to wonder why you need to take a break from having sex, therefore it's none of his business what's going on with you health wise. Besides, what good is it going to do? He'll probably just be relieved and feel pity for you.
2007-06-21 07:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is ignoring you I don't think telling him you had a miscarriage will gain the kind of attention your seeking.
2007-06-21 08:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by je 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not being nasty but he will probably just think u want his attention .wait till things settle a bit
2007-06-21 07:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋