my best friend........know her from last 16 years.......she is going around with a guy. Well guy has gone abroad.....and distances cretaed misunderstandings.......they had breakup then again patchup .......this repeated many times....the guy is caring and loving but over possessive and dont trust her some times.......she says she likes him alot.......only person towards whom she gets attracetd.....the person she calls after her parents......but still she doesnt love her.....she likes her caring nature....but she not always misses her.....sumtimes dey dont even talk for a month n nothing happens to her and at other times she starts crying even at one day absence........she doesnt love anybody else.guy wants her to take a final decision either in or out..........she confussed.wat shud i suggest her
2007-06-20 23:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by emmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you're her friend and you've known her for 16 yrs. then try and support her decsions... She needs to talk to her bf and get her feelings out. That she misses him while he's away and that it's difficult for her during those times... It sounds like she's young and this is her first "love"... I can tell you from experience that if this bf loves her he will understand her feeling and maybe take some sort of break where she can see other people. Or they can just remain friends.. It's a difficult choice, but for her atleast she can have fun with other people as oppossed to wasting time on someone that only sees her as a possession and not a person... For him it's a kick knowing that she's always there "waiting" for him, a power thing if you will... She needs to let him go....
2007-06-20 23:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Emmy
Tell your Friend that in all likely hood
one that dose not trust or miss trusts the one they
are suppose to be in love with , they them self's are
being untrue and in all likely hood being unfaith full.
So your Friend should move on and find a person who
will care for her and trust her as she would for them.
Good luck Emmy.
2007-06-20 23:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by RONBO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her 2 not be stupit
2007-06-20 23:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ddint understand your story sorry
2007-06-20 23:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think out....that guys rel stupid
2007-06-20 23:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to do what is right
2007-06-20 23:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y the hell r u asking me
2007-06-20 23:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by kermit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋